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My sister Helen1

Hi ladies, my sister was an active member of your group. I just have a look in order to support her.

Sadly Helen1 died on Dec 22nd just gone. Her scan in nov showed extensive liver mets and treatment was stopped and she was referred to the palliative care team.. She had no pain and she had a sense of peace in her and for someone who had fought it all the way , no fear of dying. We are all devestated.

She had a great quality of life while on her chemo n had no real side effects. She was so happy with the team in UCHL especially her consultant dr McCormack . She felt they gave her the best chance . RIP

keep up the fight



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I am so sorry for your loss. I too was treated at UCLH and could not have asked for better care.

Sending you hugs,

Sheila x


She was a lovely lady, so full of life. She made the best out of every moment and coped so bravely.

I am very sorry.


I am so sorry to hear of the sad loss of your sister Helen, it must be such a shock for you all particularly that her illness was relatively short compared to others on this site. please accept my deepest sympathy love x G x


I am so sorry to hear this, and offer my condolensences.

LA xx


Dear Mairead I am very sorry to hear this news about your lovely sister Helen, all my best wishes to you and the rest of your family

Amanda xxx


Dar Mairead

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister, Helen. She always had a good positive comment and was a valued part of our community on here. Please send my condolences to her family, she will be missed

Love Wendy xx


Dear Mairead

So sorry to hear the news of Helen. Left a message for you on Gwyn's poem blog instead of here by mistake

Love Suex


Dear Mairead

Thanks for letting us know. I'm really sorry to hear this news of Helen. She was such a lovely lady - so determined to get on with her life and live it to the full despite having cancer and really very little remission over the last two years. She was always there for us with advice and support and then in November last year posted up to say that her third line of treatment wasn't working. I've been wondering how things were going as we hadn't heard more.

This is a devastating time for you. Helen remains a model for us all. It was uplifting to know that she didn't suffer any pain and had few side-effects from the chemotherapy. She was a brave woman and I much admired her for her positive attitude and acceptance of her fate.

Now is the time for grief and for us to send our heartfelt condolences at the loss of a wonderful sister.

with love x Annie


Dear Mairead, so sorry to hear about your sister Helen, she was a lovely lady. Remember all the laughter and good times and talk about her often.

Love Lucy x


So sorry for your loss, she will be sadly missed on here, where her wisdom

was warmly welcomed.

bye Helen




So sorry for your

Loss! The inevitable that we all dread but your account gives me hope that I too can go the same way!

Margaret xxxxxx


So sorry

Bettyann x


So sorry to hear of your loss.

Love Mary xx


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