It's my little boys birthday today! 8 years ago I went into labour and he was born at 15.22 on 14/6/2009.
He is nothing short of a miracle in so many ways after I was told I couldn't carry a child, long story.
My point: I have been quite stressed sorting out gifts, spending money I don't have and generally being alone doing this...
At this time (00.45) I would usually have had a good drink or three and smoked eleventy million fags trying to hold it together. I don't find these times easy at all.
I'm incredibly proud to say, no drink, NO SMOKE, and, despite my past reliance on cigarettes getting me through, my stress has actually been much less upsetting!!
Thanks for reading, I'm off to drift in dreams of my little ones face in the morning... I don't stink and my chest is all free... boom!!
Bests Jo x
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jobm1
1 Year Smoke Free
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BOOM...BOOM...Jo..You are doing extremely well under difficult situations...Well done !!
Tell that boy'tjie there is a Banana farmer in Mozambique who wishes him a very very happy birthtday and he must give his mom a big hug for she had come to her sences ...!!
Aw that's so lovely, and likewise!! I'm so so grateful for the lovely, supportive people here, makes every bit of difference 😊 xx thank you, he's with dad for a bit now but cannot wait to get him hone later ❤️
Hey jobm1 , great honest and heartfelt post, you can see alright all the love you have for your precious miracle son in your profile picture, he is a credit to you and now you being smoke free, you are a credit to him (hope you understand this Irish metaphor!)
I 100% agree that I now deal with stress a lot more calmer smoke free, smoking definitely magnified it but we were too blind to see!
Happy Birthday from all us to your son, hope he has a great day
Ps: I didn't really realise how much smoking took away from us. Time being the biggest thing. I never smoked in the house but the amount of time I wasted outside is dreadful! New beginnings here ☺️
Aw thanks so much 😊 we're in Manchester, he's having a super extended birthday due to family and school so all wishes will be happily passed on and are very gratefully received x
It was the oddest thing realising I was LESS stressed without a cigarette!! I'm using my e cig much less too.
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