fed up of having a constantly tight chest, no money and smelling awful so after weeks of plucking up the courage i have decided that my life will be better without smoking. I'm determined to stick at it this time so will be checking in here every day for motivation.
1st day today: fed up of having a constantly... - No Smoking Day
1st day today
That's fantastic news Nik,
I'm so pleased you've made the best decision of your life. We're all here to lend a helping hand. Are you quitting today?
Good luck, even though you won't need it!
Molly x
Hi Nik.
Always room here for one more. Congratulation on your decision, and if its support and encouragement you require, we are all here for you. Everybody here at some point needed it and with one anothers help we drag each other through it.
All the best
Don
Welcome to a great forum Nik
which is full of wondeful supporting people that wilbe there for you through out giving you as much support and advise as you need
just remember to take each day at a time and if it helps each minute to start with and keep focused on your reasons for quitting
keeping your hands and thoughts busy is the key especially to start with when your just constantly thinking of smoking and also wondering if your going mad because you cant stop thinking about smoking but it is do able those thoughts do get weaker
coming on here reading and posting will help
onwards and upwards is the way to go
all the best
Carol
Congratulations
Congratulations on one of the best decision you've ever made Nik.
There are many people who have travelled the journey before you and they've left their many "messages in a bottle" in this forum to ensure that you're not
totally alone.
Chances are that any problems you have with quitting have been experienced by a quitter before and a good place to start is to read as many posts as you can from this forum.
Welcome to the party Nik
Read and post
I wish you all the strength in the world for your quit.
You CAN do this
Keep us posted
Cheers
Greg
I'm really sad to say that the attempt did not go well i dindn't even make it to day 2 so i have bought allen carrs audiobook and i will be listening to it this afternoon when i have took the kids back to their mums i'm not going to give up on giving up. Thanks for all the words of encouragement i know i CAN do this.
Try Try Try again
Nik lovey dont quit your quit, its HARD we know that and thats why we're here, so this way didnt work for you, we know that you should try something else, have a lil think on WHY, was it what we call a trigger? or an overpowering crave?
think
H A L T (hungry? Angry? Lonely? Tired/Tempted)
You got this, you're ready AND you'll be ahead of all the jan 1st quitters! you can be their pathfinder, if you lookback through any quitters posts we all post every 5 mins for about 6 weeks you know why - DISTRACTION break the habit, if you have a tea and a smoke first thing, have a coffee and a bit of toast, as you beat the crave you break the cycle, and thats the aim for us all, just breaking that cycle, and DIG through aged posts here, there are some truly motivating and heartwarming and inspiring posts that show no matter the year no matter the person, we are all going through the same things xxx
So dust your self off, grab some armour (nrt or books or your weapon of choice), chin up deep breath and smile.
We got your back,
Quit day coming up soon
I am quitting on 1st Jan 2013 , and looking forward to seeing how strong i can be , smoked for 30 years
Hi Nik, whatever happens stay on this forum and keep trying. It's true that you CAN do this, you just have to believe in yourself.
We are all here whenever you are ready to give it a go.
You and Patti could be quit buddies!
Please let us know how you're getting on honey
Molly x
Nik
Whatever you do dont see this as a failure - it takes a lot of guts to even decide to stop.
I am a great believer in the fact that everything happens for a reason
There'll be other times Nik dont be hard on yourself at all - perhaps you were under too much pressure on that day
I only stopped on Xmas day because on this day I was under no pressure at all - I dont do Xmas.
Boy do i remember that first day and boxing day - I know how hard it is - I will never understand why I didnt light up.