im sticking with the stickers, this forum is scary. ssoooooo many people struggling with their quit,im constantly being reminded of those pre quit and very early struggles with shall i,shant i. just one more day of then i'll do it tomorrow. Im so glad i'v managed to move past that part. It has to be done before moving on to the next part even though that too is rough at times. not sure what im trying to say really. apart from if i can do it anyone can. never thought i could till i tried . Yes i failed a few times but for me the trick is not stay with the fail cos as soon as your in it you know you dont want to be there, You dont have to stay, you owe it nothing, you dont have to be polite with it and put up with its boring ,predictable company. Its like leaving an abusive relationship, crap job,worn out underwear,fingernail clippings,bad haircuts,thrown up kebabs,apple cores. its not about giving up ,that implies sacrifice. its no sacrifice. its something thats reached the end of its season. Its not a sacrifice ,its just change and wanting something better, and walking on [with hope in your heart ,that way you'll never walk alone through the storm oh dear i feel a song coming on] and we certainly have no need to walk alone when theres such a forum as this.
Mashx