Pure O - facial features

[torontoguy96]

Hi friends - wondering if anyone has experience obsessing on the facial features of a friend/roommate/partner? Every time I look at this person I can have a conversation, but thoughts of their nose are always in the back of my head, NON-STOP.. from what I understand, this is Pure-O, but looking for someone who has experienced this before and how they got out of the 'rut'... PLEASE help if you can. Thank you.

[aparente001]

Are you attracted to the nose, or bothered by it? Do you know the person well enough to talk about this with them?

[Disciple777]

Hi! Are you comparing features from one person with another? I had OCD where I was worried that a feature on a man was the same as my wife's. Not as in she looks masculine, it could be the smallest thing, eye color, a wrinkle under the eye, etc.