LGBT mums - the one not intending to carry.

[Millie92]

Hey guys,

I haven't posted before, but am hoping for some advice/signposting.

My wife and myself have had numerous failed implantation and its starting to consume our entire lives. My wife is amazingly optimistic, however, I just cant feel positive about it anymore. Our next box of drugs and needles just arrived and it tipped me over the edge.

There is loads of support out there for the female intending to carry, and also men. However, I am struggling to find support for the second female in a same-sex relationship. I have all the hormonal urges, but absolutely no control. All I can do is sit back and watch my wife have to go through it all. Its horrendous.

Anyone else in this situation, and how do you deal with it?