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We had our follow up appointment, on Monday at the fertility centre.

As soon as lift doors opened, my heart broke and I was hysterical 😭 there’s nothing they can say or do. We have no more money for more treatments. So that’s the end of our TTC 😪

I feel so deflated, everyone I know has a family, those who I knew were having issues, all (I mean all of them) have their miracle 😡 it’s just not fair.

My partner has a son, So I know he’s devastated we can’t have a family together but he just doesn’t get how I feel 😪

I feel so angry, resentful and devastated all at the same time, can’t look at Facebook or instagram or even tv without their been new baby announcements etc.

Does anyone know of any face to face groups in Newcastle?? Love to be able to meet others in my situation, someone who gets it !

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Hi Shelbe

Sorry to hear that you are having such a difficult time. Please email me at heather@fertilitynetworkuk.org There is not currently a group in Newcastle but I can refer you to some support channels.

best wishes Heather.

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LadyPeony in reply to heather-moretolife

I am so sorry that you are having a difficult time. Have you explored ivf clinics that offers financial packages. I don’t know how they work but I heard about them, not sure whether this is something you will consider.. all the best with the future

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Shelbe77 in reply to LadyPeony

Thanks for your reply, we are maxed out with a loan we took to pay for 3 unsuccessful IVF cycles 😪

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