I'm a 41 year old coming to terms with unsuccessful attempts at having a child. 3 ivf attempts , 3 pregnancies and 3 miscarriages. I Can see all that I have to be thankful for ( I have a wonderful husband , family and friends ) but I can't shake this feeling of sadness and anger from not fulfilling my mum role. I'm resisting isolating myself from friends who are all doing the family thing but it hurts. Anxiety is making me feel pretty lousey and just generally rubbish about myself and my inability to be a mum. No wish to adopt so I feel it's time to get my head around the reality of a different life.
Any stories of success / similar experiences would be wonderful please - I can't seem to find any local support groups concentrating on childlessness after treatment / trying. Based in Cambs .