Break up

I moved in with my partner of 1 year 3 months ago, living together hasn't worked out, I have moved out of his home to give him space. As he was ignoring me at home, never kissed me or seemed interested, I would try to make him something nice for dinner each night and he would say that he didn't like it or not hungry. Asking him for money for groceries was terrible, one day he said he didn't want to eat dinner, and another time that he was not a dinner person. He was saying that he wanted groceries done separately, he wouldn't say how much rent he expected me to pay, but just that $175 a week wasn't enough, he began making comments about holidays that we had taken together it was his parents holiday home, I paid for groceries and dinner/lunch out every time we went which was about 4 times. One time in bed he pushed me away, I tried to give him a cuddle. I haven't heard from him since I still have my bed at his place. My new home is a studio unit, so I get space to myself and own bathroom.

The voices that I hear are now saying that's nice that you like your new home, still some negative voices saying that you must be missing sex. I am taking quietapine at the moment and it is helping. I get a good night sleep. My work is going well, I get a performance review soon.

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life is hard especially when relarionshipbreak down, what you say sounds like He is using you and familiarity just has bred contempt. so now you need to arrange to get your bits and pieces picked up.

have you asks why the relationship has broken down, however you are out now in your new place, it is time to move on and learn from the situation you have found yourself in.

Try not to rush into a new relationship, consider the implications of moving in before you jump on the memory foam together

BOB