who is Bullied by 60 Classmates everyday, with endless hideous Name Calling for all his physical and mental difficulties, which are all Heartbreaking, and Not his fault...
It broke me to hear his story...
I could never have survived 10% of what he's been through..
He doesn't commit suicide only because he doesn't want to hurt his family, who he knows does Love him...
Can Anybody say something nice to him ???
He will read this post and what you reply !!!
Please encourage him...
He's such a good person...
I was born a Caring person.
This will Never change..
Chris
Catman22
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This is problematic,
His self worth will be effected as will his confidence so if not already He will need to come to terms with His past. Possibly talk to the Doctor and a Course of CBT may be offered.
He should write a list on the things that happened, if He was Brutalized or attacked etc.
His family Life may have suffered accordingly especially if the parents had tried or not to help the situation, talked to the Head Teacher or Form Master. Did they put it firmly back into the Childs hands
BOB
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Thanks Bob,
Chris
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Yeah man,
I myself am never really Bullied myself out of luck, yet I still ask God everyday to give me the Strength to ignore the mean hostile people I do still get sometimes..
It ain't Easy to just walk away but I quickly forget about them by doing something else...
It hurts but if you do the things I asked you to do in my original reply, you Will Have an Effect On Them. I do this myself and the only problem is that it works Too Well and I get in trouble for hurting and upsetting people Too Much.
Ask Luna how I am good at this... - Funny, but true -
U R a fabulous strong man. I know this must be very challenging to U at times.
Is it possible for U to find some type of therapist to help U find some relief from the bullies and give U tips on how to deal with these evil people. U have such a pure heart thinking 🤔 of your family. I’m shnookie and I’m here 4 U.
Sending U hugs and kisses
Shnook
You've got Friends man..,
I am only 6 feet tall and I wish I were 6' - 7" like you !! My 3 brothers are Over 6' - 4" and I have Always been Jealous of them for that.. They say it is no big deal and hit their heads all the time going through doors...
Did you know that in China they actually have a Doctor Break their leg Bones and go through Years of surgeries and torture just to be a little bit taller?? This is for Real !!!
Google it and you can read all about it...
People always respect height, whether they say so or not...
To the man suffering, you do not deserve this treatment. Can you speak to someone in charge? Can you get evidence by recording the bullying — either video or audio? Video would be better.
Please understand that you’re much more than your disability. You’re a valuable person and you deserve respect.
I hope you find a solution. Start by telling someone with the authority to do something. These bullies need to be stopped.
U R so right Perhaps he should talk to his family to help him out Sometimes U need a support team behind U as we do for each other in this group. and unfortunately Bullying can cause many people to commit suicide. Often the person who is being bullied will not say anything. Unfortunately Melania's 4 year plan and I don't mean this in a political way was not very effective. and among LGBTQ youth the combination of bullying and sometimes being thrown out of the house by their family can be a lethal combination. Of all times during this horrible pandemic, this is the last thing that we need.
This all is making me think, that I was Horribly Bullied believe it or not, working with all computer programmers, who you would think would be better than this..
I will Never miss a single one of them, and when I left forever, they repeatedly said "You don't have to stop talking to All of us ". I did.
Would you believe I was Bullied by a nurse who works with the intellectually disabled - go figure. A real contradiction in terms! Still cannot believe that
Wow, how about that - you are a mental health worker and advocate !!
Awesome,
I just Love everyone's responses to this great man, who refused to be brought down to their level..
I was a shy sensitive child who stuttered. I had a teacher who made fun out of my speech in front of other students. I told my mom and she went to school the next day to tell the teacher off. It never happened again. This was just one time and it sticks in my memory
for the poor guy to go thru this all the time is intolerable. Somebody has to intervene or more quickly he needs to be extricated out of this situation. I know that this is easier said than done ENOUGH Also we don't know the family dynamic Does someone there know what's going on. This man needs to reach out to one of them.
He's a Member - I wish he would reply to us. He might not have a whole lot of faith in this site yet - his post was really long and probably a lot of people don't have the patience to read the whole thing - and then wonder how can you beat the bullies? Even I couldn't do that, because I was totally outnumbered..
The worse of them was that woman who stalked me for the next 13 years..
Sick, huh ??
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Yeah - he might have to search a little bit and might not know how to do the settings to get all the email alerts that I get that make it so easy..
We might have to wait a little while for him to get around to finding us..
I am going to respond back to him directly by the end of today on how to find all of our replies. Having ASD there is no way he even knows how to do this.
Even I the great programmer am very frustrated when I really want to get back to a particular member but can't remember his username and don't know how to find him..
One guy was so on my side against that woman I wanted to Thank Him so Much for all he said..
Our man will be so Happy when he sees All these replies, and that we have been through the same thing too...
Chris
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There's a lot of 'em..
Following is a good idea.. It gives you a lot to talk about.
It's pretty obvious I've been through all this too, so I am Personally involved.
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Yeah I had to ask for help with that because I couldn't figure out how to do it. Thanks for reminding me to show him how it is really helpful to know some about that person.. And then Follow..
I only follow one person so far and told her so..
Wait till he finds out he has a virtual Army on His Side !!!
We are a Team,
And He'll appreciate this...
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Please say a small Prayer that I feel really tired and sleepy all the time..
It's uncomfortable and I really don't like it.. On the phone people say I'm sorry for waking you up !! When I already have slept..
I'm not going to complain because not sleeping has been a big problem for so many years...
Catman
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In 14 hours we've given D 33 replies !!!
You see my Daddy ??
I Love Him so Much !!
He gives me Food !!!
Stinky Inky
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Hey y'all !
When people act "hot then cold" to you, be careful, it is possible that they don't really care about you, as much as you thought they do, or at least aren't showing it, or don't care if you feel that way.
Jesus said a fountain can't be both sweet and butter, I mean bitter, that one or the other will be true, but not both.
CM
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Hi there catman,
Ur story was three months ago but I am seeing it today. I am truly inspired. U are an inspiration indeed. Do u know how many people who think of doing terrible things to themselves bcz of being bullied and all? Yet ur challenges are bigger than theirs. I for one am truly inspired. I don't care that this was written 3 months ago I am still inspired by ur bravery and having positive thoughts when times are tough. We all go thru them but we hardly find people who stay on top of them like u. I can not understand fully ur challenges but I very much do know how it feels when there is nothing positive to look forward to.... Thank u for ur story, I'm truly inspired.
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I just need advice 
I just don't know 
I just feel stuck
I just Don’t understand 
I don't want a pity party, I just want to know I'm not alone.
