Why do I keep Getting played by guys

[TWISLY]

In almost every relationship i have the guy is the one to do the dumping( any ideas for revenge)

[Hidden]

I had lots and lots of bad relationships before I found someone suitable to marry and he turned out not to be the one = living independently now and enjoying my freedom

[CanuckAnon]

Why bother with revenge? What are the reasons for dumping? Learn anything from that? Could it be partially your fault relationships ended?

I get the feeling but I think it’s better to work on yourself to make yourself the best version of yourself.... 😊☀️🌷

[Hidden]

Assuming you have depression, anxiety or other, could be they don’t understand you or your mental health. Could it be that you pick the wrong guys in general.

Have you tried to compare failed relationships and find a pattern of what might be happening? Have no idea the reasons for your breakups, but revenge takes up a ton of emotional, mental and physical energy. You should focus that energy back towards yourself, if you have low self esteem, low self confidence, working to improve yourself, becoming stronger mentally and emotionally means you’ll stop repeating bad relationships, you’ll have the ability to be in more stable and longer ones.

[Hidden]

It is becoming sad why people are unable to find the right person.

In the past people would stick to a relationship when married like glue. Divorce and Separation seemed to be to easy these days. I have been married now for over thirty years and is a good partnership.

Personally I would only pull out of a relationship if the relationship was failing I would not go out with a person, get what was wanted then run. Respect of the person on both sides should always be considered before anything else. If there are lies, that is another thing and I would run a mile if lies were a habit.

It seems you are not looking for the right one, if someone is unsuitable, move on. remember you need to respect someone and the Partner needs to be able to trust you, failing that you will not be able to find the right one

BOB

[Hidden]

Revenge NEVER ends well.

I say.. work on u..to be the best "U" u can be..for yourself.

Then worry about finding a boyfriend.

If ur healthier..u will have healthier relationships.

Otherwise u will just continue in this vicious circle.

Girl..u can do it...

[Afrohair]

Why revenge ? was it not the case of your not suited I think you should accept that and move on .why you would want revenge on a guy who dumped you is mental!

[Humanintraining]

If only I knew you, then I might be able to spot the issue. I'm responding blindly.

I can tell in advance though, if you take revenge on an ex, every good man you can get that speaks to your ex, will dismiss you and there will be nothing you can do about it. Except maybe move far away.

[Torri_____]

I read to WRITE a list on paper of the ten most valuable attributes you would want in your mate. Post that list on your wall and spend wise time growing YOURself into those things that you wish to attract 💕

[Torri_____]

And sorry about heartache but don’t take the breakups personally because some are in a different place or headspace and not looking for a relationship even if they say to gain or some run from feelings or sabotage when they feel afraid. Keep yourself knowing that you are worth being in a relationship mutually giving 💕