I am suffering a lot

[Shilpa08]

Guys I don’t know what to do I had my first marriage anniversary yesterday but I was not happy everyday I just want to leave this house as there are always fighting in the house the people are very nice but they are always fighting and shouting I want to have my own life there is no love in me for anyone I am so confused what should I do if I leave my husband that will be very sad as it’s difficult but I don’t want to stay also because they are conservative they have no life all day ghar ka kaam

[Hidden]

Some relationships are like that and they endure. Depends on love, trust and pride.

[Hidden]

All I can suggest is you try and look for a new address to move to. I only lived in a flat for about two year and some people on the other side of the landing were always arguing.

All we could do was to talk to the Police or have a quiet word with the neighbor who is always chewing the fat.

We moved to our semi and others next door were the same before they moved out. It is difficult to have problems you describe

We live in a detached bungalow, we can still have problems although not as bad, it is only a problem when they are shouting outside in the garden. Sad to say in some instances it is all down to give and take we have a large plot of land, about near half an acre. We are lucky.

It can be so problematic too find a place far enough from next doors

BOB

[hypercat54 in reply to Hidden]

I think the poster is living with her in laws Bob. At least that's what I understand from the post. x

[Shilpa08]

Thank you guys the problem is that I am out of love for anyone I don’t know what I want in life I just know I am not happy my life is totally changes earlier I used to go out and chill etc now I am all time at home and I hate cooking I am not a good daughter in law plus these people fight everyday me and my husband don’t have anything to talk but about my mind and sadness but he has supported me through out and I worry about society a lot

[Shilpa08]

Should I go for counselling and analysis what I want because if I leave house they will be devastated and if I don’t then I am suffering

[Hidden]

I thought in past you were in medication from old posts? Am I wrong ? Is your new family wealthier or poorer than your family? You mentioned jealousy previously are you jealous of this new family? Do you have to stay home all the time? Can you go out and get a job or go places just for yourself so you don’t feel overwhelmed? I would feel overwhelmed living with a whole new family? I guess thinking things over what you can or can’t do I hope you find a way to fit into your situation or not. Will you find happiness if you leave ?

[Shilpa08]

Thank you so much for replying I am very confused if I will get happiness or not