Walking with our children dating with the wrong partner.

[Silentrider60]

Hi and son and a narcissistic girlfriend, she is a type of girl that is controlling your son and using the softer side of her. I know people like this, and believe me I can stop those in crowd just by going up to them. Narcissist are very scared of those they can't fool, I am one of those people can't be fool. So yes the things your son is going with this girl, it's not him making choices the girl is and she is using every power in the sex to over come him. I can and I will support you and give you some tips so you will understand what is happening to your son. Being a mom is very very hard and you have to let him make bad choices that how he will learn. In the mean time I can tell you this that your son loves you very much and go through these steps with h and this girl. You would get a bigger picture on his life with her, and make him think your happy for him. That found Mrs Right and now he wants to marry her. In the mean time get your doctor on stress meds you will need them, I couldn't get a doctor for me when I have been having same problem with my daughter with 2 kids and her narcissist boyfriend that still playing house with. I told her, do not stay with the boyfriend because you had kids with him, and another how long is it going to take with your girls ages 2 and 1to go through the same stress you are going through and they know something wrong but it daddy. Your not alone and you and I will get our kids back. God be with you and your son. Janet Silentrider