I know maybe no one will reply to this but I just want to get something off of my chest. It doesn’t matter if no one replies.
Recently I’ve been dealing with a lot. I’ve dealt with the death of one of my friends not even a year after the death of another one of my friends. Grief crowds me.
Also I’ve had financial issues due to the untimely sickness of my mother. She’s alright but she deals with insecurity, some depression and anxiety regarding her condition and also in general. Ive had to offer her support in her journey of insecurity and sadness, and I just feel like it takes so much from me. I’m so tired of all the baggage. I have my own emotional problems and I also take on hers and my dad’s.
I can’t finish this semester of school because the money has to go toward my mom. And I don’t care as long as she gets the help and medical care she needs but she blames herself for me not being able to go to school. I try to be her support system as much as I can because my dad doesn’t. I feel like I try to fill that gap for her but it’s never enough. It’s gotten to a point where I empathize with her so much it drains me and I try everything I can to make her happy. I even sometimes try to keep a distance from her so I won’t feel horrible just looking at how unhappy she is and hearing the things she says about herself. I just need a break. From everything.
I haven’t self harmed in a while but the weight of everything going on makes me feel like that’s the only hope I have at feeling better. I feel hopeless and I wish there were somewhere I could go other than here.