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Jamesh77
Jamesh77

I’ve never felt this down my mind is out of control feel like I can’t think straight just want it to stop so much drama in my life a girl I’ve seen a few times nothing serious just told me she’s pregnant last night I don’t no what to think need help

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Jamesh

Sorry regards your Girlfriend, are you responsible ?

If it is above that has caused your low mood I do not know what to suggest, that will be between You and Her.

If You are depressed regards your Life and you feel you are not functioning as well as before talk to your Family Doctor, they will arrange a treatment plan

Let us know how you get on

BOB

Thanks for the reply not really my girlfriend a friend who I just keep in touch with

Jamesh

Is there any way we can help you at this time ?

BOB

Not really I just need to deal with the situation I’m in thanks

You've sort of danced around the subject, but I assume you have had sex with this friend who is not a girlfriend. If that is so and there is a chance you could be the father then ask for a test. You need some kind of proof before you take on the responsibility of the decision making that would be involved. The decisions you make today could affect the rest of your life. Is there anyone you could ask for advice? Pam

Jamesh77
Jamesh77 in reply to sweetiepye

Thanks for the reply I’ve spoken to a friend about the situation as she only told me Sunday and is only 12 weeks gone it’s still early days for a test I presume ?

sweetiepye
sweetiepye in reply to Jamesh77

Yes it is early for a test , but it's not too early to let her know you expect one. You haven't really said how you feel about this. Are you good with it or do you think you're being used ?

Jamesh77
Jamesh77 in reply to sweetiepye

I’m not really good with it no totally out of the blue feel like it’s being put on me I understand it’s a two way thing just a difficult situation?

sweetiepye
sweetiepye in reply to Jamesh77

Yes, yright you do have some responsibility here ,may be. I just don't want you to go on her word alone. I'm sure she has other friends ? You need to be smart about this. Pam

Jamesh77
Jamesh77 in reply to sweetiepye

Other friends? Did you mean male she says not but I don’t no she told me she was on the pill but probably forget take due to other tablets she takes left in her in bed for 3 days I really don’t no what to think

sweetiepye
sweetiepye in reply to Jamesh77

Something's rotten in the state of Denmark.

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