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[bunnyrae]

I cut myself two days ago cause me and my husband got into a fight. He knows about it and I feel like crap and very shameful. I don’t what to do. I know what done is done I just feel like I’m not getting better.

[sweetiepye]

Hello bunny, Let me see if I know how this goes... you have a fight...he wins or is in control...you feel hurt and out of control.....if you cut yourself you will deflect the pain you are in and maybe he will feel sorry for you... being a nick name for Richard, he doesn't ...instead he tells you that you are crazy nuts... end of the story is...he feels fine, you feel not so fine. It doesn't sound like he is for you. You will get better, it takes time. he will not get nicer . You have nothing to be ashamed of. You are trying and that is something to be very proud of. Pam

[Shadow123- in reply to sweetiepye]

Hi Sweetie totally agree with your advice to Bunny. Its great to have people as understanding and sensitive as you and i have read many of yr posts and although i dip in and out of this site, they have often helped.

Many thanks for sharing

Love and peace

Shadow 🖤

[hypercat54 in reply to sweetiepye]

Totally and completely in a nutshell sweetiepye. Brilliant analysis. x

[sweetiepye in reply to hypercat54]

You can call me Dr. now.

[hypercat54 in reply to sweetiepye]

As long as you don't start charging! x

[Shadow123-]

Thumbs up for Sweetie. Totally couldn't of put it better. My darlin we are always here for you. I am in a relationship that sounds a lot like yours except its with my daughters boyfriend. The worst part is seeing him mentally abusing her- they both live with me and he knows about my conditions. I self harm at least once a week. U prob know this trick- it sometimes helps. Put an elastic band on yr wrist and ping it when u feel the need- the sting helps with letting it out in a safe way and please listen to Sweetie - its a familiar pattern and i couldn't put it better.

Love and peace

Shadow 🖤

[Hidden]

It is sad to say cutting only hurts the person cut, most people cannot understand reasons for the disfigurement and can feel the sufferer has done this to hurt themselves and this can be very profound to those around you.

If you feel the need to cut you need to discuss this with your GP and come to some sort of understanding where you will seek help to stop this very serious condition

BOB