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[Naus]

Its almost a long tym i was in relationship with a guy, He is very loving n caring person but short tempered...

We love each other but the problem is my Family , i don't want to Lose my parents for anyone...(m just afraid that at last if they don't allow me to marry him thn wat will i do)

Now. M in too much tense n evn after 2months i have my board exam which is so important for my career ..

Now please help me that i can remove my tension from brain n can focus on my study thats all...

Please please please please please please HELP ME 😢

[MAS_Nurse]

Hi Naus and welcome to the forum. I am sorry you are in this difficult situation. Have you discussed how you are feeling with your parents or with another family member?This may help you and provide you with some reassurance. Your parents would not want to lose you either. Just for the next couple of months it may be helpful just to concentrate on working towards your exam. You will find this easier to do when you are less worried and anxious. Please have a look at the Pinned Posts on the website which you may find helpful and stay on the forum where you will receive support from other members. Things will work out. Best wishes.

[Naus in reply to MAS_Nurse]

Thanks MAS _Nurse...

I have never share or decision anything with them .. I m just afraid of sharing ...

How to share with them if they get hurt n just afraid of Everything .

Losing my parents,, my bf ...

I don't knw...

[Rosepetal60]

Hi Naus, I'm really impressed by the fact you love your family of Mum and Dad and don't want to loose them. This to me sends out the message that may be, just maybe this boy friend may not be for you. It's very difficult to say one way or the other. I'm only looking at it from my parents point of view who I feel would not have cared that much who I married. From my own point of view, I feel it's too early in a relationship to show anger/ be angry with someone you love. Surely if you love someone, there would not need to show anger or be angry.

[Naus in reply to Rosepetal60]

Thx # Rosepetal60...

He loves me alot n even my parents love me too. But i m just afraid atlast if i don't get both of them

[Zoea]

Hello there Naus!

I would suggest Mindfulness techniques first of all. It's like guru meditation but science based and is AMAZING. Also good sleep hygiene, talk to your GP and ask for a checkup to make sure you don't have Seasonal Affectivity Disord , lack of vitamin D, thyroid probem or something similar.

Practically, get through the next 2 months for your exam and you'll be cool. Don't feel that you have to settle for some bloke with a short temper that sounds bad and silly. Live for yourself. If you see any sign that this is actually an abusive / manipulative relationship the n YOU DONT DESERVE THAT and get away surely? lol.

Ok I don't have much other relationship advice to offer anyone but take care and Best Wishes!

[Naus in reply to Zoea]

Thank you so much..##. Zoea😊

[Zoea in reply to Naus]

No Problemo! n