Help!! Should I lose all hope with getting back together with my ex?

[Gailypoo123]

Hey guys

My boyfriend told me last week he's confused about how he feels about the relationship and me he's not sure if it's because he's in camp and we're far apart or if he just doesn't like me anymore so we broke up and now he finally knows how he feels he said he feels like we think very differently and that we're rlly different and that if he doesn't feel 100% about it it's not worth it because relationships at age 16 are pointless we where dating for 6 months and we always told each other how much we love each other

Should I lose hope? Should I stop talking to him? I don't know what I should do at this point?

[DMM218 Ambassador]

It's never clear what's going to happen in the future. But for today, your boyfriend doesn't want to be in a relationship with you anymore.

That may change in a few days who knows.

But for your sake, treat it as if the relationship is over. Don't hold on to false hope.

His explanation says nothing about how he feels only about how he thinks.

He also appears to think that age has some kind effect on creating meaning in a relationship.

At the moment this boy isn't relationship material for anyone!

Think about what you want out of life, how you can make yourself happy because no other person has the same direct effect on your happiness but you.

If you are happy in yourself that it the most wonderful quality a girl can enjoy.

You aren't going to get there quickly. But, think about it.

Be upset, sad, mad and angry but keep doing what you love to do. This boy has missed it, he wasn't for you except to teach you something. Don't ever doubt yourself because another person doesn't think he can be serious at the moment. What does that mean? He wants a relationship with someone who does not care. Sounds like he's heading for a bleak future.

Does any of that help?

[Gailypoo123 in reply to DMM218]

Yes it does thanks

[DMM218 Ambassador in reply to Gailypoo123]

Ok - keep posting when things get tough- we are here to help.

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Gaily

Nothing is as complicated as young love, throughout your early days you will meet many people that will not be the right person for you. You will know when you meet that person that shines out from those past fails.

If He feels the relationship is not right, move on, you will meet someone new. It is better you know now that this person in not THE ONE, rather than finding out after seven years or so.

Give yourself time there are many fish in the sea awaiting your hook, drag another partner in. Enjoy your life, you will eventually understand we all need to look for that perfect mate. Enjoy the search

BOB