I'm nothing

[daisylouise_93]

I'm just worthless, i ruin everything, I can't do anything, so what's the point of trying? I'm a joke

[Heruga]

Hey I'm worthless as well. Theres no point in my life. I have no outstanding skills to use for my career, I suck at communicating, I'm stupid, my life is boring, can't even find a job despite just graduating college... really theres no point of trying anymore. Life is just pointless for us unfortunate people and I think we should all accept that. Its destined that we were born to be unfortunate.

[Anna2008 in reply to Heruga]

This is so not true..you cannot give up on life. Remember it is a gift. You cannot just throw it back in the giver's face.

[Leelaa in reply to Anna2008]

Nobody is worthless , everyone has a purpose . God does not make jokes . Do you know what you put out Into the universe comes back to you . If you always find negative and never have some positive then that negative will hang around you always . If you don't like something change it. Do something positive to help yourself feel good . Sometime we have to stop depending on others to make us feel better because there is nothing greater in this life then being able to make ourselves feel good . Weather it's helping someone else smile . Or doing something that make us laugh. Doing something that we feel achevemet from . I understand depression can be hundreds of road blocks in your way from being the person I want to be , but you can overcome depression by doing something that you love and in return loving yourself . ,you are somebody ,you were put on earth for a reason . And God loves u and I love you to !

[daisylouise_93 in reply to Leelaa]

but when i have been positive it goes to a negative I try but it's never enough X

[Leelaa in reply to daisylouise_93]

What is not enough ? For whom? And if you try well then that is enough because u care enough to try that means hope is still there . There are a lot of things in life that you should be positive about . And it only becomes negative if your letting it. "What you can tolerate you can not change" thats a quote i would like you to think about ok..

[sweetiepye]

Hello Daisy, Are you looking for someone to agree with you or disagree? I noticed you received some very good advice in your previous post which you immediately rejected. The people who are trying to help you have had your experience and are over coming it. So the information they share is worth listening to. Your first step has to be to see a Doctor because you need a diagnosis and you can't get one any where else. You may not like to talk, talk, talk, but you should listen, listed, listen. Pam

[Robina23]

Hi why you putting yourself down what's wrong Hun ??

It always helps to talk about your problem.

A problem fhared is a problem halved. X

[kinikia95]

OMG been there done that. I feel the same most times. It feels awful. but I'm here. I'm guessing you are probably a really good person but things don't go your way? I just try to keep doing good and take solace from that. It's a dark place to be and I'm with you. Maybe that doesn't help but I just want you to know that I hear you. It's cathartic for me reading your post because I think about how I'm a loser yet I manage to help others in small ways - that's something. Even good thoughts sent out to others can be of value. I'm sending them to you and I would love if you would send them back - I need them. That's something.

[daisylouise_93 in reply to kinikia95]

thank you for your good thoughts though, i am sending you good thoughts to

[Robina23 in reply to kinikia95]

Hi am sorry I haven't been in touch earlier things have just got on top of me. THANKYOU for your reply I am trying to stay positive but just haven't got the energy.

I use to be such a patient person nothing could get me down but I just can't take things no more I just want to snap.

I love giving out advise and helping people but it's hard to take your own advise.

Am trying to stay on top of things. 😂😂

[kinikia95 in reply to Robina23]

If I could actually take my own advice and use it I would be all set, fixed right up ☺

[Robina23 in reply to kinikia95]

Tell me about it. !!!

[Nesie237]

I don't know you, but I'm pretty sure you are not worthless. You're not a joke. None of us are laughing. We've all been where you are. I'm there too often. At some point, you have to accept that it's really up to you. You need help and there's certainly no shame in asking for it. Now stop beating yourself up and fight for yourself, woman! Nesie 237

[daisylouise_93 in reply to Nesie237]

thank you, but i do feel worthless, and I have been told people laugh at me, i know i'm a joke

[Leelaa in reply to daisylouise_93]

If everyone worried about what others thought of them this world would be pretty boring . There would be no color in this world . And if someone was laughing at me well then I guess I must have had fun then . You need to find some self esteem and pick yourself up . The only person who can reach deep down inside and pull your inner happy self out is yourself but it takes some courage , some faith some hope , some tears some fears and some strength and some believe in your self . Your beautiful because God made you that way . Get up everyday for a week look in the mirror and tell yourself "I am beautiful " and "today is going to be a better day then yesterday . " positive talk can do amazing things. Even if you don't believe yourself ,do it anyways for a hole week .. take care.

[daisylouise_93 in reply to Leelaa]

I haven't made fun of anyone? And but i'm not beautiful :/

[Leelaa in reply to daisylouise_93]

No what I was saying is if some one talks about me behind my back I just simply say well I hope I had fun in what they had to say about me.. . And you are beautiful . You need to come out of your cocoon and see . Beauty is in all of us . Do you see beauty in others ?beauty is the heart of people . You can be cute you can be pretty on the out side but if you don't have a good beautiful heart then that person could be ugly . And just you coming on this sight reaching out to exspress yourself is a step forwrd in to a positive direction . And wouldn't it be great to be able to help others that are going threw the same depression as you are ?

[Hidden]

Hi everyone has value by virtue of being given life. This is the depression talking, don't listen to these thoughts as they are false. Listen to those who love you and us who understand.

If you want to feel better you need to seek professional help. If you find it difficult to talk write it down. Is there anyone who can go with you?

[daisylouise_93 in reply to Hidden]

i don't know, I will try writing it down thank you

[Blueshirt]

No you're not; no-one is. You are just short of support. The sternest beam in the world will collapse without good supporting pillars. The good news is that there are some really great people on here who will help and support you; people who care about you. So dust yourself down, and don't beat yourself up. We all fail. The only people who don't fail are those who don't try. Better to try and fail than live without trying. We're all with you; and we don't think you're a joke. Take a rest; have a break and relax. Be kind to yourself and do nothing for a day or two

[daisylouise_93 in reply to Blueshirt]

thank you

[LoriMS61]

Hi Daisy,

What have you done that makes you feel worthless? What have you ruined? What can't you do?

I had to quit being a teacher because it was too much for me,cdoes that make me worthless?

I've ruined clothes by washing them wrong, my body by eating too much, my hair as it fell out from stress, some friendships because I wasn't who they wanted to be. Does that make me a bad person?

I can't switch my mind off except for when I take my anti depressants-they make my mind go quiet so that I can fall asleep. I can't seem to stop eating. I can't always keep it together. I can't seem to hold on to who I am.

Does that make me a joke? I've exposed my faults to you. Is there any point in me continuing to try?

If you can be kind to me, and I hope you are. Then you need to be kid to yourself.

Lori

Xxx

[daisylouise_93]

everything i do is wrong I can't do anything. and no you are not worthless, or a bad person though X

[Nesie237]

Why are so determined to believe that?

[daisylouise_93 in reply to Nesie237]

to believe what? X

[Nesie237]

To believe that you are worthless. Read some of the responses to your post, especially LoriMS61. Most of the people responding to you have felt the despondency that you feel, that they are worthless. You are in charge of your destiny. Determine what hasn't worked and do something to change it. It will be hard, but you can do it if you just decide you can. There's no secret recipe, just do something to help yourself. I don't know what mental health services you have available to you, but I think you should start there. We are all supporting you.

[daisylouise_93 in reply to Nesie237]

i know it's just hard, sorry but thank you though.

[Nesie237]

Sounds like you are determined to give up. Nesie 237

[daisylouise_93 in reply to Nesie237]

sorry, I'm useless

[Nesie237]

Only if you believe that. You are in control of your actions. Believe me, I remind myself of that everyday. It's horrible sometimes. Lots of days I don't want to get out of bed. But my dog makes me. He makes me laugh. Pets make you feel worthwhile. They need you as much as you need them. Nesie 237

[daisylouise_93]

i only have a cat, they are good to