Feeling really really down :(

[les82]

Just been for my uni interview for my post grad and i am on the way home. Sitting on the bus crying thinking where did it all go wrong . 9 days on from the break up and i have found myself missing him. Feel so unsure about the future and what it holds! x

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Hello Les

Give yourself time and be kind to yourself, How did the Uni meeting go??.

BOB

x

[Stilltrying_]

Les it's going to take time. Of course you will miss the positive things that you had but never forget the unforgiveable things he did either. If you ever find yourself wavering write them down as that sort of behaviour should never be tolerated by anyone no matter

You will have a range of emotions it is natural. Of course you will miss him, feel lonely, feel angry , feel down, and then at some points in the future you may have other feelings like excitement about doing something, suddenly realising that you've enjoyed something and you were on your own or he wasn't with you.

I guess things like interviews are going to bring it up as it's marking a change and also it is the kind of thing that if you had a good partnership you could share your excitement and your fears and your news with that person, so it's completely understandable. (though I know that doesn't make you feel any better)

Did the interview go well?

Gemma X

[WantToChange]

I know how you feel. I miss my ex too. You won't believe me but it does get easier. You're still raw after only 9 days. But this guy really wasn't worth it, he treated you badly. You will need time to get over him, everyone does.

I just wanted to say I know exactly how you feel x

[Suzie40]

9 days is no time to be over what has happened to you. It will take months. Small steps. How was the interview? X

[Maman2144]

Hope the interview went better than you think. Give yourself time, breaking up with someone is a hard thing to go through. Hope things look more positive soon. Take care of yourself. Regards Lorna