Has anyone seen Stilltrying -Gemma?

[CarolineLondon]

Come on young lady you cant hide forever. Im a bit worried and hope you are okay. Let us know if you need anything, apparently Bev knows where you can get cotton socks

Hope everything is okay Gemma.

XX

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I know everything Caroline Haven't seem Gemma for a few days hope she is ok. Bev xx

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Velma

Gemma responded to someone's post about 12 hours ago (Amateurwriters I think), she's still about.

Does that deserve a Scooby Snack?

James

[Photogeek in reply to Hidden]

Spot on James. Yes I saw her reply yesterday. I remember she

Did say she would be visiting Dad and not have Internet.

I'm sure she's ok.

Hannah x

[CarolineLondon in reply to Photogeek]

Thanks Hannah...was just checking, as you know she's been through a lot lately. Hopefully a visit with dad will help.

X

[CarolineLondon in reply to Hidden]

Now now Naughty! Remember Jamesy when you go out today you must wear your pants on the inside, Superman two days a row is too showy..lol.

Good luck on your mission

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Hello Caroline

Gemma was on about eighteen hours ago.

I have sent her a private message so do not worry.

BOB

[CarolineLondon in reply to Hidden]

Okay Fab, thanks Bob x

[Stilltrying_]

Hey folks! Nice that you are worried about me; I am fine; just bit "knackered". Been shopping today thought I'd try and smarten up the place; bought a "photo clip" photo frame or something like that it's called. Just spent more than an hour trying to put a photo in the frame! I am very poor at practical tasks but you have to give me top marks for trying; and i'm going to carry on learning how to do stuff but I must have faulty gene in that department because anything practical I find very difficult indeed. No instructions with it of course and I didn't bother to look up on the net how to do it; just kept trying; am still trying actually (as is my name) as I didn't get to do it properly in the end.

Nevermind . How is everyone else getting on? It will have to be the morning now when I reply as I am really done in at the minute.

Gemmalouise XXX

[CarolineLondon in reply to Stilltrying_]

So pleased you are okay and on a quest to become a Handy Man well done you. Meee too my bushed so off to bed. Hope you sleep well Gemma XX

[Stilltrying_]

Yeah didn't sleep well last night (it's now New year's eve ) but I'm ok. After that big depression last week it just "switched" and I'm "growing" again; it's like words that people say "click" with me and I move forward again.

Just been recommended some stuff on Amazon which i will look at . It is all about "gaslighting" which is something people who are narcissistic (and also psychopathic/sociopathic) can do to people like me (empaths) ; I think I have been subject to a huge amount of this but now mum is gone I am starting to feel more grounded and not under as much pressure though I seem to change a lot as last week I was completely desperate. Don't feel like that now.Hope it lasts and I can develop some more and actually feel some happiness in life)

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[Stilltrying_]

How are all my friends and what have you been up to?

[CarolineLondon]

Hello Hello Gemma, well done on moving forward, always nice to see someone reaching for the best. You will feel uppy downy its the grief its weird , apparently there are stages. May sound awful but I felt a huge sigh of relief when my Dad died, mostly because as I child and young adult I was being made to pay for his mistakes! And Mum calmed down a bit...lol.

Deaths a funny thing, leaves you with mixed feelings as inevitably it leaves you with somethings being good and some feeling awful. Anyway Im pleased you are baring up and even moving forward even if you slip up now and then, you should feel proud of how you are coping.

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