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Just to let you know that Annie could no longer carry on and sadly died last week. I didn't realise how deep her problems were and have found out things I wish I had never known from this website.

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Golfer15

Sorry to hear this. Sadly those of us on here cant explain to our loved ones how we really feel. Only others with the same illness really understand.

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Photogeek

Hi there and I'm very sorry to hear this sad news. Annie joined here a month or so

Ago, and unfortunately I did not really get to know her in that short time. It mustHave been

Hard to read her Posts. And I'm. Sure her intention was never to hurt you.

Thanks for letting us know this sad news.

Please look after yourself .

Hannah

Hi I am so sorry to hear this news. Please don't blame yourself as it is very difficult for a non depressed person to understand. We all do here and I hope we were able to help her just a bit. She is at peace now. Please make sure you take care of yourself and thanks for letting us know. Hugs

Bev x

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Stilltrying_

This is terribly sad news ; it must be a terrible time for you right now and it must be awful for you reading some of the things you have read.

No words I say can make it any better for you but I do sincerely thank you for caring about her and us by telling us about this. Take care of yourself as best you can right now and sending you my warmest hugs.

Gemmalouise XX

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secondhandrose2

How sad. It can be difficult finding out things after a person dies, but hold in mind that she kept them for you for a reason, probably not to hurt you. My thoughts are with you. Suex

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Suzie40

Hello there,

Please don't allow your discoveries on here to serve as a betrayal. As Sue has said, people disclose things on forums because the people aren't 'real'. Annie may have wanted to save you from hearing things she thought might have upset you.

Lots of love

Lucy x

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21esme

I am so sorry. As Lucy, Sue and Hannah have said Annie withheld things from you as not to upset you. She was struggling with her actions. It must be terrible for you now.

Warmest thoughts

Sarah x

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Gambit62

Very sorry to hear this news.

Please try to remember the good times, and not to question whether they really were good times and let that destroy them.

Annie you were betrayed by your mind, may you RIP.

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WantToChange

I am so sorry. I feel so broken up about this. I had a private chat with Annie and I could see she was troubled. I didn't guess her problems were deeper than I saw either. She was deeply troubled by her recent actions. And I think she felt incredibly guilty.

I'm so sorry for you and your children.

She told me in the private message that she had a beautiful husband and children and that you were more than she could have hoped for.

You may never read this, but she never meant to hurt you. That much was clear to me. What she put on here were her deepest feelings, many of us never speak them in the real world. This site becomes like a haven for some.

Again I'm sorry. I really liked Annie, she was a good person and I wish she could have been saved.

I will remember Annie xx

Please look after yourself and your family xx

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Photogeek

Hi Want to Change. That is such A lovely true heartfelt reply to Annie's Husband.

You know it's so true what we write here is Private and enables us to be

100% honest. I too would hate if my brother read my Post about him being a selfish

Person etc and many other things.

It's such a pity for Annie's family, but none of us know how I'll people are here, and

Annie had just joined. She was lovely, may she Rest in Peace.

Hannah xx

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celtic2746

Im truelly sorry to hear about annies sad passing as she was a great help to those who knew her ! God bless you and your family david

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