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Emotions are all over the place today!

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My daughter started Primary 1 today and I am feeling a bit overwhelmed but in a good way. Tomorrow is the 2 year anniversary of my mum's death and me and my fiance are not speaking at all. Dunno how to feel today! X

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Been there les. Ignore your thoughtless fiance you are entitled to grieve for your lovely mum. My thoughts are with you and I hope tomorrow isn't too traumatic for you.

Why don't you go and light a candle for her? I did and it made me feel better. Take care. xxx

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Photogeek

Hi Les

Cough is right. You are naturally upset over your Child starting school, every Mum

Goes through this Les, this makes it harder when you dealing with grief.

Ignore your fiancé and light A candle . Be good to yourself and hug your

Little child when gets home from school.

What is wrong with your Fiancé?

Hugs and healing

Hannah x

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WantToChange

Wow, you are dealing with a lot. Eveything falls apart at once doesn't it? I'm sure your daughter will come home beyond excitement having had a great first day! So I hope you are not worrying about her. On top of this you have an important anniversary and this will be over-takign your thoughts and bringing back painful memories. Personally, I think you are very strong for not breaking down.

As for your fiance, he must know you have a difficult time coming up and hopefully will speak to you soon. Sometimes we just need time apart from out loved ones, a bit of time to get some perspective on things. Absence makes the heart grow fonder so I'm sure things will fall into place again soon x

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les82

See my previous post Hangar. It all came to a head a few nights ago. Thank you for your kind words. My daughter got on brill, so Ix

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Les how are you tonight.? How are things between you and Fiancé, I hope

Things work out. Relationships are never easy, all we can do is our best.

Hannah x

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Suzie40

Oh I needed therapy after my two started school, I was devastated! So glad she enjoyed it though, they always do; it's us who worry! Sorry things are still not good between the two of you x

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les82

Thanks hun x

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another-girl

Hello!

I hope your feeling a little bit better today..

Maybe try to stay calm(?) like take some tea and listen to calm music.

Do something for you, for letting this feelings go you you know?

Good luck dear !

-another young girl xx

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les82

Thank you hun x

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