I'm alone and lonely trying to re-discover myself. .

[sandy497]

I'm alone post d breakup of 6 yr old.. trying to figure out wat I want from life, other den the girl anymre.. I know I'm special in my own way of thoughts, need to discover within myself for who I'm and wat I wanna be 10 yr down d line.. life is all bout doing something out of d box.. finger crossed investing time on me.. which often is to be on others all d time.. focus is d mantra

[Stilltrying_]

Yes you are right Sandy. You are undergoing a period of change; it will take time for you to come through this change in your life and sometimes you will find yourself looking back, feeling sad and so on. But you are right now you have to find a focus and spend time being kind to yourself finding out what new interests you can take on and then eventually move on with your life. It seems like you had a lot of feelings for your girl and now things have moved on but there will be a future for you. Maybe there is some sort of hobby that you never did? I don't know what that can be as I don't know you, but for example running, or watching sport, dancing, or anything it is that may interest you. It will be hard at first as you may ask yourself why am I doing this, but through this maybe you will meet more people and make more friends and who knows ten years down the line there may be another lady who is special to you but in a different way. Take it easy xx