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I have small dick and I am 25 years old ..I am even afraid of being naked in front of my friends what can I do?

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I'm afraid that to be blunt, there is very little you can do. You are what you are, Alkibe, and at 25 you're not going to grow any further.

You say you are 'small', but the chances are you are larger than you imagine. Looking down at yourself gives a distorted view. If you are slightly overweight, that can also give a false impression. Some people are small when flaccid, but become much larger when erect; others are larger when flaccid but don't become proportionally larger when erect.

Please ignore those adverts you may read for pills, potions, etc, etc which promise you a larger penis; they do not and cannot work. Penis Pumps may lead to a temporary increase in size, but it won't last.

I'm genuinely sorry that I can't give you a magic formula to make you bigger; if one existed, I'd have used it myself!! The only way is to learn to accept yourself as you are, and make the best of what you've got.

All the very best.

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Alkibe in reply to

Thanks Comptom895 for the great advice

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Ryanr

Compton pretty much hit the nail on the head with that one there is nothing you can do unfortunately.

However a woman’s g spot is only 2/3 inches inside her vagina if you can hit that she will have a good time regardless of your size.

I’m lucky in that sense but a couple of my friends are small but they always seem to get laid and have girlfriends I wouldn’t worry about it too much bigger doesn’t always mean better more women hate a big penis because it hurts.

The big dicks you see in movies are just camera angles they or no bigger than the average man.

If you are really that worried about it and you feel you could undergo surgery there are solutions available to you but no penis pump or off the shelf pill or remedy will make it bigger.

Hope this helps 👍

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Good point about the G-spot, Ryanr. It may just be worth pointing out, too, that the clitoris, being external, is very accessible, and that it's perfectly possible to bring a girl to orgasm without the man's penis being anywhere near the girl's vagina.

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Yeah that’s true I didn’t include that to make him realise his dick can still pleasure a woman regardless of size 👍

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Oh dear! Reading that, Ryanr, (The big dicks you see in movies are just camera angles they or no bigger than the average man) makes me feel even more inferior than hitherto!! :) :)

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They are though it’s all camera 😂

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I'll try to convince my girlfriend of that!!! :) :)

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Ryanr in reply to

If in doubt just buy a cock sleeve 😂

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Thanks, Ryan. Haha!! :)

I'll probably, though, just continue to plough her own furrow, whilst being grateful for what I've got....

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Put her legs on you shoulders then I’ve found it goes abit deeper 😂

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Don't worry, we do - and yes, it does!! :) :)

Yes, you're of course absolutely right and it needs to be reiterated. It's an absolute myth, as you also rightly pointed out, that the bigger the penis, the greater her pleasure. I'm far from big, but have managed to 'do the biz'!! :)

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BarrySimpson

I used to live near a nudist beach. I went there nearly every day when the weather was warm. Men and women would stand around in groups chatting. I have never heard anyone comment on the size of anyone's penis or the size or shape of any part of anyone's body. Everyone was accepted just as we were. True friends will do just the same for you.

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JohnNicola

My friend, you are who you are! Rejoice in that. I have a much smaller than average dick as well, but the important thing is that my wife and I have enjoyed an active sex life until ED took over in my early 70s (I am 76 now), I fathered children and am proud to be male and masculine as a husband and father.

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Ire_cali

Having a "Big penis" is overrated. The sooner you stop worrying about that the happier you will be. Girls don't even like more than 6 to 7inchs. Be confident with what you got. That is more appealing to women than having 10+ lol and who cares what your buddy's say. They are probably shy as well.

First, stop watching porn. Some of it is camera angles as Ryanr mentioned. Also, the porn industry typically hires men in the higher standard deviations of penis size.

Second, as others have mentioned, you're probably bigger than you think. After all, we are our own harshest critics.

Lastly, I think learning to be comfortable with who you are is critical. Easier said than done, I know. But it's not just penis size we're insecure about. It's all aspects of life. Learning to be comfortable with who you are is about learning to love yourself and establishing your identity as an individual.

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