Genital issues

[GGSP]

Hi am Nolan am 43 years old and ask ing for help concerning the shortness of my genital.my wife is very deep and i have problem s satisfying her as well as longevity also what do i do?

[nickItaly]

Dear GGPS. As you can easily find in the internet, it is not true that the bigger the best. Penises vary largely in dimensions among men, and it is not sure that men having bigger penises can give women more pleasure.

How long have you been married with your wife? What do you mean by "my wife is very deep?" Is she complaining of bad/short sexual performance?

Do you know? women have a big part in our excitation, so if a sexual relationship is not good, usually both are involved, not only the man. For example: does your wife develop a good lubrication when you have sex?

If you have erectile dysfunction, you can go to a good andrologist for advice.

In the meantime. Have you tried lubricating well your woman with your tongue? It is usually very exciting for women. And after that, it is possible the you penetration in her is easier and more pleasurable for both.

Remember also that, as far as we know, the most sensitive part of women are not very deep: the clitoris and probably the middle part of the vaginal walls; so you should not worry about how long is your penis.

If your performance is too short, again you can ask for advice to a good andrologist. Some useful techniques are the start-and-stop. You should go on until before you sense the urge to ejaculate. Stop moving. Extract the penis, Squeeze your glans between two finger. You will feel your urge disappear. Then start again penetration, again until before you feel the urge. You can do this two or three time. This make your intercourse longer, and it should make you used to retaining more your semen, i.e. postpone ejaculation. Of course, the first times you will last only a little bit longer. But with practice you will be able to resist longer and longer before ejaculating. I can assure you you will experience a much more intense orgasm when you finally let yourself come. And your wife should also benefit, because you last longer.

[jaglad]

Hi, I would start by following Nicks advice. Then perhaps try different positions, From behind usually allows a little extra length. Viagra or similar on occasion will help sex last longer. For a little 'treat' now and again I use what I call a padded condom, available from most on-line sex shops. This adds a little girth and about 4cm. Mrs enjoys this but do not use it too often, do not want her getting to accustomed !

Remember Sex is for both of you, talk about it, introduce things when you are both ready.