General Penis Problems (17)

[Cryolite321]

Hey everyone,

This is a new account because I dont want people to know who I am.

Im 17, and I got some issues that I really want to clear up.

Just as a note; Im *NOT* visiting a doctor or getting circumcised. So suggesting these will only make me feel worse.

Im 17, and quite frankly a little chubby. My foreskin has NEVER been able to retract, and the most I've ever seen of my tip is when masturbating , when you can barley see the head (maybe your small finger nail type size).

This is the worst issues for me at the moment, as Im scared it will hurt if the days comes where a girl actually see's something in me. Also all those big names for conditions and what not scare me, and well depress me and get me ever so anxious.

Another issue is my penis isn't very big. And well, as mentioned before, I dont want it to be tiny to a point where a woman just goes "nope."...

As you might be able to see, im the least confident person, and thats one of the reasons im not going to see someone or getting a circumcision.

Another issue I've learnt to live with, is when i got to urinate, sometimes after I finish, more just sorta comes out. I sometimes have to almost masturbate to get the rest of it out, and Im not sure if this is a problem either.

I know some of you if anyone comments, will use big fancy words, and well, try not to scare me any further. Any information would be great.

Im also considering mass exercise to get slimmer , which in turn might reduce some of that fat around my penis. And also some general pulling back and forth exercise on my penis to maybe loosen it up a little.

Any help would mean alot, and thankyou in advance.

[Artyfartblast]

Sometimes the best advice we need is that which we don't want to hear.

[nickItaly]

Dear Cryolite

it' is difficult to help you because you say you do not want to see any doctor.

Anyway. I think you are very young and you can ameliorate things of your body that you do not like. My general impression is that you do not live well in your body. So I think losing weight can be a good idea, but also in this case I would go to a doctor for a specialized diet for you. And to a good personal trainer for exercise. Do not try to do yourself, you could harm yourself.

About foreskin: I think at your age you should be able to uncover the entire glans (the head of the cock). Again, only a doctor can help you.

About cock measure: do not worry too much. Firstly, if you are overweight, your cock SEEMS smaller than it is actually. Secondly, I can assure you (I've work as a nurse in the Army so I saw a great quantity of cocks!!): measures and shapes are very various in the male young population, and the majority of them had cocks smaller than mine (which is just medium-size!). So do not compare yourself to porn actors, which are selected also for their dimensions, and are really "out of scale". Remember also that it is not dimension that satisfy a girl, and sometimes big cocks can in some way inhibit girls. In the movie "American Gigolo" there a scene where Richard Gere is completely naked and you can see his cock. It is medium-sized, yet Richard Gere has been (and still is) a sex symbol, and he proudly decided to shot that scene completely naked: so he is proud of his cock, although it is not such a big cock.

The last thing: doctors see every day men's cocks. They look at them just as any part of your body, such as your nose, or your foot. So you do not have to be embarassed at all to show them your cock and to tell them your story. If you prefer, you can chose a man-doctor, he may be more confortable for you.

Please tell me if I manage to help you just a little bit.

Feel free to contact me again

Nick

[jaglad]

I will repeat what others have said and probably what you really know anyway. Losing weight will be a big help and size is relevant, the angle you look from makes the difference. I never had that problem but I do think a 'good shake' is not unusual to expel remnants of urine. I have said many times on here, I was not able to pull back until my twenties so do not worry too much about that. Gentle stretching may help whilst in the bath or shower. Circumcision would be a last resort and I would not recommend it. Unless you are experiencing pain or really worried I suggest you work on getting yourself in better shape and try those stretching exercises. But, if you do have worries or pain, please see a Doctor, there is nothing to be worried or ashamed of.

Good Luck

[JPW31]

Hey cryolite. I really empathise with you here. I was chubby in my teens, and self conscious about my cock though for a different reason. As I grew I sorta just lost weight so if you've not had a growth spurt in some time I suspect you'll 'magically' lose that weight. If not then you'll need to Excercise and maybe change your diet.

But I suspect you know that.

For your penis specifically. Is it that you can't retract your foreskin or that your foreskin doesn't naturally retract? Because that's two different things. One is of (usually minor) concern but if it doesn't naturally retract you likely just have a long foreskin. Best of my knowledge that doesn't hurt you in any way.

[PruesDad]

As a general rule, if it's not sore or painful then leave it be. They're all different, and as long as it functions fine without being painful then there's not likely to be a problem