First time sex after circumcision

In 27 of September I had the operation of circumcision because of phimosis, redness around the glans due to it being tight (flaccid included)

After my recovery I tried having sex for the first time being Circumcised.

I couldn’t mustarbate it because my flaccid penis looks like the Greek statues with the exact size, the lack of the foreskin and frenulum made my head very numb and the only sensation I could get was that of discomfort.

I couldn’t for the life of me bring it to erection, unless I mentally tried to arouse myself, the penis erection seems smaller than before, now it is glorious 4 inch size, I suppose I had around 5 something, guessing by just looking at it.

I had sex with a condom, oral, girl on top, doggy, I literally feel only the slight pressure of it being inside something or squeezed, no pleasure whatsoever, I somehow managed to came didn’t even felt it was coming or anything, this is my first time ever having sex after month and half without my foreskin and the experience is quite gruesome, I’ll update on the future

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Im sorry to hear that,i was circumcised at birth and have had issues with my size and having no sensation during sexual activity. Im currently restoring my foreskin and after 4 years im half way through my journey to having full flaccid coverage. I hope things get better for you.

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What damned animals, filthy doctors care about money and just moving on to the next patient, hey let’s chop the hand because it itches, see? No problem! Ohh and let‘s slice of the taste buds, hey dude you can still chew the food and swallow it, so what if you have no taste, you get used to it, it’s normal cultures practice it for safety reasons, I know a guy who ate a chili pepper once and his tongue burned a bit, you need the Circumcision of the taste.

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I disagree with you on that,were all entitled to our own opinions so how about we just leave it at that,there's no need to get all upset over it,it's not worth getting yourself all angry about it.

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For me it’s difficult to get used to because originally I never wanted this procedure, where I live people are 90% chopped off, all the urologists gave me nothing but the cursed cut, I caved in and I deeply deeply regret it, I even quit my job at a health facility, I view these places as rape scene, it is so unfair women get actual treatment but nooo, I must suffer because of this Jewish crappy culture may it burn, I swear I got phimosis because some doctor has a glans obsession syndrome, the worst part you can never understand my pain.Imagine being born and they cut off the taste buds, you eat pizza you will feel a doughy texture but no taste of said pizza, you can swallow that and it will make you full, but where is the experience of knowing the pizza taste?

I only feel numbness and discomfort, of course I’m mad at this

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Im not sure if you are taking the piss out of my comment or are agreeing with me?

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I’m not angry at you, I just hate myself for being so naive and easily convinced into it, some guys said they felt good but I feel different, maybe because I lack the frenulum too, making mistakes in life is too easy unfortunately, the thing is I never knew how a cut guy experience it, I thought it was similar to my own experience just slightly so

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I never got the choice,my foreskin was taken from me at birth and for this im very pissed off with my parents for doing this just because it was the fashion in the 60s. So thats why i decided 4 years ago to restore my foreskin,it wont be exactly what i had at birth but it will function like a foreskin,my glans will become sensitive again and i will be actually able to feel sensation when having sex.

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That is a sad thing to hear, what a world we live in, fashion, cutting a body part fashion.

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Don't expect too much the first few times. Take it slow and take time to enjoy giving your partner a great time. I find sex is different, slower, but more intense when I finally do come. Also, in my case, I've found that 8 weeks on I have a bit more sensitivity coming back compared to when I first had sex about 6 weeks after circumcision.

Sex is as much mental as physical and currently you're mentally in a difficult place. The worry about the lack of sensitivity will make it worse and it becomes a bit of a downward spiral.

Try some different positions where the girl is tighter around your penis. Doggy lying on your sides is good because you can reach over and touch your penis as you go in and out, and she can too - and she also has good access to her clitoris that way. Scissoring/tribbing is also good too, particularly for shorter penises because you get maximum depth doing it

Do remember that most of the sensation will be from the head of the penis entering the girl, once inside there isn't much tightness - female parts are incredibly flexible! You know how you see in porn all these cut guys taking it out and putting it in over and over? You might think it's because it's horny to watch but actually it's the only way they get good sensation. Same reason why they're smashing away with a death grip to finally come at the end of the scene. If you watch European porn (where actors are more likely to be intact) it's very different.

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Hello! I'm experiencing a very similar issue to your post circumsicion. I've got mine done about 2 months ago and sex has been awkward to put it mildly. I don't feel much down there, and its hard for me to maintain an erection, I don't feel when it has gone in (or it starts to soften once it goes it since I don't feel much), and when I feel something is uncomfortable, like it being squeezed. Has it improved these past few months for you?