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Any tips for first time sex with a guy?

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Hey guys! Have been getting a lot of sexual advances from a bisexual co-worker. I have never been with a guy, but off lately, am thinking to experience it. Any tips?

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Practice safe sex.

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Ipsquint47

Take it slowly and enjoy.

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GayDadx2

What both comments above say - and don’t do anything you don’t want to.

But let yourself go and have fun. Sex with guys is very different to women. I’ve always found it a bit rawer and rougher (not a bad thing).

And make sure you shower, means you can explore and enjoy much more.

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WellySam

Be clear about what turns you on whether that’s things you might like to do, like him to do, role play, particular clothes etc.

Don’t be afraid to ask for what you like.

Take it slow, you can always go further another time

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PhindiSoul in reply toWellySam

That’s true, finding each other’s fetishes would make it great!

One thing to think about, whilst you might not want to plunge straight into anal sex, you might want to explore and “be explored” with fingers and tongues. So showering is important but also try to empty your rectum - have a poo and gently shoot some water up there with the shower hose, not too much but enough such that your finger comes out clean. Have fun!

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WellySam in reply to

Good advice. A lot of straight guys miss out on the unique pleasure of anal fingering and rimming. Practice on the shower with a soapy finger

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Santiago9324 in reply toWellySam

That’s true! Great advice

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PhindiSoul in reply toWellySam

Rimming is the best feeling ever!

and also stroking his shaft whilst you do or visa versa

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PhindiSoul in reply to

That’s so true, be clean, prepare well for the sessions and doing a lot of touching before going to the deed might be the best way to start

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Santiago9324

Take it slow, talk about what you like, what you don’t, what you’re interesting in with your partner so you feel comfortable And enjoy! You’ll have a great time :)

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Garrett0606

Some surprising experiences in gay sex might include:

Not all guys like to kiss

Not all guys like to give oral

Oral sex from a guy always beats oral sex from a girl

Anal sex is not the first go to thing for a lot of guys

Some guys don’t ever like anal sex

Some guys prefer to be only a top or a bottom

Gay sex can be very gentle, sweet and loving

There are many erroneous zones, not just the dick.

Always carry a lubed condom

Be ready to be surprised!!

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PhindiSoul in reply toGarrett0606

I like that, it’s different with everyone, that’s the best thing about sex, partners can have it their own way

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PhindiSoul

Absolutely! Have sex with your partner your own way and enjoy finding each other’s weak spots till you both bust huge nuts!💦💦💦

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PhindiSoul

It sure is...and addictive too🔥

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Staffie66

This hunk i knew had great abs,he removed my shirt an oiled my body,then my shaft got errect,it turned me right on,his hand grabbed my shaft an slowly developed it to a full erection to make me cum.one of the best orgasms ive had.Is this normal.?

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Staffie66

If theres some sort of chemistry why not,ive only had a orgasm from a man in my in my younger days,only a hand job no penetration,an it was a great experience.

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