Lack of feeling during sex

[RR27]

Hey guys, almost 6 weeks post circumcision! Everything’s going well, I got cleared at 4 weeks and had sex a few days after I got cleared. My only concern is that when I went in, I didn’t feel much... I have read that maybe I need to use lube? Like place a couple drops in the condom and then try? I didn’t go in without a condom so maybe that would feel different. Would love if someone would help me out with this! Later on in the night I did start to feel more but it still wasn’t a lot.

[Velcro93]

Two things that you can do is not only apply lube to the condom but to your penis. Hydration of the skin is very essential and post circ the sensations do reduce so I would not worry much. The other is that Not feeling much is different from not feeling anything and I hope its just reduced feeling. If so then simply keeping your erection hard and having condomless coitus will stimulate the feelings centers in the nervous system . If you are using a condom along with post circ glans which has been desensitized it may be a little less sensitive but you will still be able to feel the good feelings. Post circ due to the keratinization there is little sensation and simply hydrating the glans can help . All the best !

[RR27 in reply to Velcro93]

I read this somewhere as well! I will try this next time I have sex and see how much is needed and what exactly will work. I try masturbating yesterday with coconut oil and I think that felt a lot better! I think it was also that I’m more healed now but also do to the hydration. What kind of moisturizer do you use to place on your penis all day and that doesn’t stick to underwear? Thanks for the reply!

[Velcro93 in reply to RR27]

I apply a very thin film of vaseline petroleum jelly on the glans if need be and cover it with a gauze if I don't want to stain the cloth . I prefer using unadulterated coconut oil on the shaft . Hope it helps you !

[Pass1961]

I have to agree that 8 weeks post circumcision I have not yet managed to cum through intercourse. Hoping that it will get better with time and practice.

[RR27 in reply to Pass1961]

I think we will need to find new ways to experience pleasure. Remember that it’s not only through the penis that we experience pleasure but a whole body experience!

[Hidden in reply to Pass1961]

I hope so too Pass1961

Good luck!