Sex after circumcision

[Baldslap]

I was circumcised 4 days ago due to BXO and still in a lot of discomfort. I'm curious as to how others have found sex and masturbation after they've had and recovered from circumcision? I was always a little too sensitive glans wise so I'm hoping for some improvement in that department.

[Arclight1979]

Hey there, welcome to the Circ Bros (unofficial name). You can find more detail in my previous posts about sex... short version is easy to share. I didn't want to have sex for at least 8 weeks... and I didn't. Me and the wife resumed sex (lots of lube, thick condom) at around 8 weeks, which was a fair while after the wound had closed and all stitch ends were out. It was awesome, but I was being proper gentle. From then until now (a year later) it's just got better and better, lasting longer than ever, my boners are bigger, etc. It all takes time, no rushing into things. Let that fella heal.

[Baldslap in reply to Arclight1979]

Thanks for the reply. I'm already a bit blue balled tbh and it's only been 6 days 🤦‍♂️. We're going away on holiday in a little over 5 weeks so was hoping I'd be okay by then but I guess it's better to wait till it's all settled

[Arclight1979 in reply to Baldslap]

It is frustrating, and the waiting game can drag... but when your chopper looks like a Pepperami Big Boy it's easy to resist. 😂

[Baldslap in reply to Arclight1979]

Just been reading some of your other posts which have put me at ease a bit so thanks for that. The swelling is horrendous atm it's like a doughnut with a glazed plum in middle 😭 and my frenulum looks a disaster and is so sore but I'll get there

[Arclight1979 in reply to Baldslap]

All part of the service and glad they help. It's just my experience, but comparing notes with other guys here put my mind at ease too. Always happy to answer questions if you want to DM.

[dronist]

Sex is so much better but that's just my opinion. It looks great the hygiene is great and the glans widens. All things women love. So enjoy.

[Baldslap in reply to dronist]

The glans widens? Not heard that before I just thought your shape was your shape tbh

[Arclight1979 in reply to Baldslap]

It's true. Mine is bigger now and the head has flared slightly at the rim. Trust me... sexual partners will enjoy that particular benefit.

[AddyDugg]

It was months before I was brave enough to try again, but I suffered a great deal of sensitivity after my surgery. Bear in mind that I had a foreskin for 62 years before circumcision. I can now last for ages which makes me feel like a stud and keeps my partner happy. Wait until you are ready and like others have said, use lots of lube and maybe a condom. One benefit that I didn't expect is that my partner is much more willing to engage in oral sex which is a real bonus

[Baldslap in reply to AddyDugg]

Every cloud has a silver lining so they say say. I'm 44 so also had a mine a fair few years, still very sore atm tbh but can't wait to resume normal duties so to speak and a little scared it's going to be less pleasurable

[UK_man]

I’ve lost some sensitivity, it will differ from person to person but sex is still good and although it was never an issue before I last a lot longer. Don’t rush things

[Arclight1979 in reply to UK_man]

That last sentence is the best advice.