I got married in March 2019 and was away from my wife for around 6 months since I had to come back to the UK to sort the visa out. Before I got married I use to wank myself off and probably was doing that for 12 years. I am 26 now. I do not wank as much now, since my wife is here I have completely stopped it. I try to have more sex that’s why I do no wank.
My willy use to be a pretty good size prior to marriage even when it was not hard. It was a decent size. When it then went hard, it was bigger than what is usually is. Now my willy remains very small unless I come to my wife and it gets hard. It usually maintains a good size when I am hugging or kissing her. I notice when I am getting intimate with her my willy is getting hard but slowly releases semen into my pants. I notice this as I see white patches on my boxers. I cannot control it releasing semen into my pants. When I go to have sex I ejaculate to quickly and I am not able to satisfy my wife fully. I do not like this situation at all. When my willy is insider her, it slowly reduces its size. I use to have an erection in the mornings when I wake up, but that does not happen anymore.
Also, as I am noticing if I release too much semen I get a lot of joint pains in my knees and ankles in particular. Is releasing too much semen got anything to do with having too much sex or releasing too much semen?
How can I stop ejaculating when I simply hugging and kissing my wife?
We are trying for a baby, but can’t have sex 2-3 times a week as I experience joint pain and willy takes time to get hard and then reduces its size immediately.
I am 26 years old, I am 5foot and 10 inches and maintain a weight around 10-11 stones. I do not smoke or drink and try to do regular exercise. I usually do running for my exercise, which lasts around 25 mins. I am an IT engineer by profession. I have started to drink whey protein not because it helps me recover from running, but it helps reduce the joint pain.
I hope I can get some advice from you guys please let me know if you require any further info.