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Looking for some advice whilst the docs are on lockdown. I cant retract my foreskin whilst im erect, when flaccid i can. Ive looked into having circumcision but im in two minds due to the fact how long i aint going to be able to have sex for. I have a very high sex drive and have sex ever day multiple times. Do you really have to wait that long to have sex? How did you cope with the urges?
Whats can people suggest?
Also size wise? As i think its small but my mrs said its not small
Well, first of all. There is no need for retract your foreskin to have sex with someone else. You know that for sure. Personal hygiene is a thing of course. It's very personal dependant how long it takes to recover to the act of circumcision. If they need to cut/remove the frenulum it may heal slower than just a circular cut on the middle of the shaft.
It's fact that you can not have sex or wank at least for several weeks. Suggestion is to have a celibacy like 6-8 weeks. Recent wound won't cope with a friction and stretch of stroking.
Just take a deep breath and wank later. That is my advice. 
Thats the thing when it does pull back during rough sex then it hurts like mad. I have already had a frenulplasty done 2 years ago due to me splitting my frenulum. I cant go that long without sex and neither can the mrs....
I want it done for the look and so i dont getbthe pain i get. My foreskin also keep splitting....
Well, I have nothing else to say: You can't have it all. Adult circumcision is not just a snip. It takes time to heal. If your preference is a look of the scar. Ripping it off all the time won't give you a neat and even result.
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Hi, it sounds like you have a degree of phimosis sometimes when you have a frenuloplasty it can help with the phimosis to loosen the foreskin but in your case it still is tight. If your foreskin continues splitting it will eventually get even tighter and you wouldn't be able to retract even when flaccid you could try some steroid creams it would help loosen your foreskin. Ultimately it is your decision what you want to do if you do decide for circumcision you will need to abstain for some time. For your size you have more than enough.
If the partner is wet or lubed enough? Is it possible on OP? Idk.
I picked getting circumcised over my sex drive. After you had it done you will have nothing to worry about then you can enjoy it
Your best option is to follow a program of daily stretching. There's no cutting, no pain, no down time, and no risk of complication.
Official guidance in the U.K. is to use steroid ointment from your doc and try stretching the foreskin. Start there before you even think about circumcision.
If you eventually have to have a circumcision then you and your wife will just need to refrain from penetration or risk serious damage. I would that your sex life is a little more varied than just sticking it in. There are other ways of getting her off. If she had to have a gynaecological operation you would be in the same boat.
It took about 4 and half weeks for mine to have sex. Carefully though. I had mine cut because I thought it looks better. For my experience I love it. Looks like a porno during sex now ha. You'll have to make a decision if it's right for you. If it doesn't bother you keep it. If you do go that route, there is plenty of information given out here to help. I got mine done 2018
Looks enormous!
I wouldn't bother about rolling it back tbh could try stretching it though if it's bothering you
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