A New Member of the Group

[DepressedPapa]

I'm DepressedPapa, semi-retired and someone who has dealt with MDD for most of my life. I've got two great adult daughters, a good son-in-law, and two very precious granddaughters, one from each daughter. With them, I am "The Papa."

I joined this group because I can't keep doing this on my own. While my daughters are supportive, they have their own busy lives. I am divorced and have lived alone for 5 years. I live in a small town but really haven't developed any substantial relationships here. I am not the bar-hopping type, am rather insecure, so while I am a "people pleaser," I am still alone. The main reason I have not quit working is the social interaction I get.

I hope to get to know folks here and hopefully be involved in the group

DepressedPapa

[gajh]

Hello and Welcome. I am glad you have joined us.

[Fefe09]

Hey , just gonna reach out and say hello. It’s hard being divorced and living alone. We all want for something . Whether it’s love companionship or just a friend to talk to. God didn’t intend for us to be alone , I don’t think. I’m glad you’re in this chat room and hopefully you’ll be able to meet and chat with others to give you motivation and advice. This is actually the first and only chat room I’ve ever been in , ever . But there are some really nice people here that can be your friend. Hang in there things will get better . 🙏😊

[Misty_girl in reply to Fefe09]

Thank you

[Misty_girl]

I understand you situation. I am in the same boat. I don’t socialize with people either not even my siblings. I have 3 Brothers and 3 Sisters 4 grandchildren. 3 I watch everyday and I also take care of my Dad as my Mom passed last year. Hope this site helps you out.

Best wishes

[Enduring-it-all]

Yes, being divorced and not the bar type myself I understand completely, it's almost like where do I fit in. I've been like that my whole life, never into drinking even though I married an alcoholic. But that was when I was young. I also for 13 years where I worked was my very tiny social outlet and that wasn't much. I'm now home bound due to my disabilities so it's even worse, which is why I'm more depressed than ever.

I know it's hard when your insecure. I've been there and still am

You might consider seeking a counselor to talk it through with. I sought one because of my disabilities and other things came up which he's helped me through.

I wish you the best in over coming your depression.