My family have always been argumentative, were all so head strong we fight over everything lol. But now I can't argue everyone drags me in! THere my family and I hate them arguing so I Decided last night to calm the situation. The main trouble causers are family I don't talk to since they constantly sent abuse at christmas, but they were upsetting family I'm close to. SO after telling all of them to pack it in I got turned on by everyone except the close ones I tried helping. NOw I'm flaring uncontrollably and in a lot of pain. THe stress is ridiculous. DOes anyone else have this? HOw on earth do you cope? Having to chose between my health and the ppl I love is horrid.