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i feel very lonely. please talk to me.

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ameliapond

Hi there please don't feel lonely. This site is brilliant and someone will always be here for you . Just ask and you can get all sorts of information. I myself am so pleased I found it for my various health issues!

All the best to you ☺

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School-reception

Wat do u feel lonely about?

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kennym66

Hi nice to meet you. Sorry for the slow response I have been at work all day.

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Phillred4

Loneliness is not a nice thing if you can join a fitness club they have some very helpful people and you can find new friends or find other clubs.

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Julie6758

Hi Your post was 21 hours ago how are you doing now? Are you seeing people or speaking to people? Keep in touch on here and I'm sure you will have many responses. Please try not to let loneliness get you down, I dont know your situation but there are many ways to keep in contact with other people, its not easy but it is possible. Take care

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Jmrose

Just wanted say Hello!!! Sometime I feel lonely too, but I'm not alone. There is always someone here to talk to. Welcome!!!

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Hi think I might have sent a reply for gilbert_sullivan to you. it has been like that today. Have'nt a clue how he /she can read it. Maybe you can benefit from my pearls of wisdom!!!!! or better still know how to send it on. But as I am here you can have a friendly hug too. Have a good evening.

So sorry you feel so lonely. I do not know your circumstances but if you are fit and able the obvious thing is to go out and meet other people but sometimes we seem unable to do this and end up making our own loneliness. I sometimes feel the 4 walls syndrome and the only way out is to make yourself go to a coffee morning or go to a group with a mutual interest. Sometimes I think "Oh I won't go to coffee" but if I get myself there I sometimes find that through conversation I get a bit of useful knowledge or just talk to someone nice. I can hear "not another one saying get out and about" but it is true. It is hard to pull yourself out of the not bothering feeling but for sure the only person who is going to feel your loneliness is you and only you can take the first step. You have done something positive by leaving your message of loneliness and people will respond and you can pull out little bits of info. that may help you and hopefully make a few friends. I do not know how old you are. I am in my 70s and in the last few years I go to the local bibs and bobs and am on a committee. I am always putting my foot in it as I don't always follow the rules!! I like making things and find some fulfilment in making something and finding it a home. I think when older,life settles to a different routine but there is no reason why you cannot have a good time and get out.I miss friendly hugs so any poor person (or should I say Lucky person) that I like has to put up with a friendly Hug. I think hugs are very important so I am sending you a friendly Hug. I have no idea of your age or circumstances so I hope there is something in my message that you can act on. Good luck, 2well-ington.

Hi, I think I have just sent a long reply to jmrose instead instead of you. It has been a bit like that today. I hope you can find it cos I have not got a clue how . Anyway Hello, you are not alone

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Bazza1234

Go on over to the NHS C25K forum. They are a very enthusiastic and supportive lot over there - all learning how to run and talking to one another about their successes and their failures.

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Esmarlda43_

Hi gilman

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mightycee79

Hey there. No need to feel lonely when you have us lot. Lets talk if you want. Whats ya name, where ya from? Whats ya story. I'll show you mine if you show me urs.

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