Can I apologise?

[spideyman]

I’m sorry to anyone I’ve offended with my posts being about finding a woman.

I suffered my original brain haemorrhage when I was 18 and I missed the important years of my life with falling in love.

I look at couples who are clearly I love and it’s what I want.

Instead I’ve had women use me for what they can get out of me and when they find they can’t then they drop me

[moo196]

Don't worry about the appearance of the outside world and seemingly 'happy couples'. Who knows what they really are behind those appearances? Many may be unhappy with their relationship or something more. I don't know many people who are amazingly loved up (if any) Concentrate on living your best single life and who knows what may happen in the future

[lcd8]

I'd say don't lose hope. There is definitely someone out there for you and if its what you definitely want she will come along. Fate intervenes at the most unusual (and sometimes inopportune) times though. Please don't think all women are users or bad news (although I have to admit I felt the same about men once). Focus on living as best you can and try to have as much fun as possible. You could even try dating agencies perhaps. Good luck.

PS I believe there are some couples that are truly happy. Its just important to bear in mind that everyone has their ups and downs, and also that its all about compromise rather than finding the 'perfect' person.

[spideyman]

I’m bored of being single. I’m 52 and the longest relationship I’ve had is a year.

Please don’t tell me it will happen when I least expect it.

I think I’m going to resign to the fact I’m a bachelor boy.

I’ll be listening to Cliff Richard next