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Update May 5, 2020

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As you know its been a long journey. Recently in USA im in NY we have been banned due to the virus from the nursing home. I haven't seen Tony in 54 days now, but have recently been able to FaceTime the last week. Unfortunately Tony was diagnosed with the virus on Saturday. I am remaining hopeful and positive that he will pull through this also. Just like all the comas, cdiff, pneumonia, and more. Hes been in his private room for a while now so I am hoping we get through this soon. I miss you all and so sorry things have been so hard. Im just trying not to again lose our house, take care of nana, deal with getting him removed from the facility once incubation period is over, and just have some life cause im very beat down at this point. Please update me below sorry its taking so long again to be in here. Just alot going on, miss and pray for all of you still. That pic was 4/23

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sue-66

It's good to hear how you are both getting on, but I'm sorry to hear he has the virus ❤ I will pray he gets through this new hurdle, after having got this far. The journey can beat you down and the added worry of the virus doesn't help. Try to be kind to you 😘 x

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HungryHufflepuff

I looked back at some of your previous messages about Tony. I'm very sorry to know he has the virus. It sounds like you have so much going on, so much to deal with. I hope you are ok too, as much as possible. I will pray for you and Tony. 🕊️

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cat3

You're the most wonderful, caring person Armani and, probably as a result of your tireless love and encouragement, Tony's one hell of a fighter. I hope with all my heart for his safe recovery from the virus.

I'm not in the least surprised you're exhausted and feeling beaten down with all you have going on. Please allow yourself moments of respite with a little spoiling when possible ; you're a courageous lady but not indestructible.

I hope your dream of a better facility for Tony, with intensive rehab, will come about once lockdown is lifted. After the years of devoted care you must be missing him dreadfully.

My best wishes to you both as always ; I think of you often …Cat x

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kiloriley

I’m so sorry. I’m thinking of both of you and praying for you guys.

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Jacacc

Sorry to hear of yours and Tony's struggles, hopefully Tony will win his fight against this terrible virus and that you get him in a facility where he will get the best help he can. It sounds like you have been through so much and we hope you have still got enough fight left to get through all this and that the happy days for you both will return in the near future. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both & your family at this difficult time xx

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Kirk5w7

So hood to hear from you again, but sorry Tony isnt well because of this darned virus.

I am fine coping with the lockdown here, getting out for a walk daily and shopping once a week. Im finally getting ready he garden into some kind of shape as our weather has been really good so far.

I do so hope you manage to keep your house and things settle again.

Thinking of you both

Take care

Janet

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