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Hello

Hope you are all ok and you all don't mind me sharing this news with you all.

I thought I would never find true love again, when I was told that my wife Kaylee had passed away whilst I was still in a coma.

I was over the moon a week ago today when I was on my way to visit my best friend Helen in hospital, using a train.

I was left on my own for 5 minutes because my family friend needed to go to the toilet, when a young lady, who is a train conductor came and sat with me and told me her name and asked if I was married and if I had any kids and the reason why she did ask me was because she said it was love at first sight, when she first saw me 24 hours earlier on another train, she was a conductor on as well.

I was more than happy to answer her questions and so I explained to her that my wife Kaylee passed away last year whilst I was in a coma and that I have 3 kids, 2 girls and 1 boy aged 5, 3 and 6 months, all 3 are Kaylee's kids and that the 6 month old girl was born very early by emergency c-section, just an hour before Kaylee passed away from injuries she suffered in a fall down a flight of concrete stairs at work.

I also explained to her why I had been in a coma for 13 weeks, last year and how bad my injuries were following a serious car crash on the 14th September last year that wasn't my fault and my ongoing problems as a result of my injuries.

She has only just met my 3 kids earlier today and she is still very supportive with everything I have told her.

Ben

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HopeforTony

Hey Ben that sounds nice that she is supportive I wish you every bit of happiness you long for in a mate. If she is understanding and caring than I see this going well. BTW prayers still for you and Helen. Good luck xx

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Hodder1992 in reply to HopeforTony

Hello HopeforTony

Her name is Hayley and she is very supportive because she is very understanding and caring young lady. Also I am with Hayley at my family friends Lauren's house now and Hayley says "Hi" to you, Tony and family.

They is still no change in Helen's condition but she is still fighting to stay with us and also thank you for your ongoing prayers for us and Helen.

i, my family friend Lauren and now new girlfriend Hayley are still praying for you, Tony and family and also send all of our love including hugs.

Ben, family friend Lauren and new girlfriend Hayleyxx

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HopeforTony in reply to Hodder1992

Hi Hayley! Im Armani. Nice to know you are making Ben so happy. I will continue to pray and hope Helens health improves. Thanks so much as always xx

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Hodder1992 in reply to HopeforTony

Hello/Hi Armani

Thank you again for your ongoing prayers for us and Helen.

i, my family friend Lauren and new girlfriend Hayley are still praying for you, Tony and family and also send all of our love including hugs.

Ben, family friend Lauren and new girlfriend Hayleyxx

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Ernest_lam

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Hodder1992 in reply to Ernest_lam

Hello Ernest_Iam

Thank you

I will defiantly have a look at your posts called "quantum therapy for SCA"!!

Ben

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Ghost-on-point

Really hope that slowly a positively Both Your Dreams & more come true. What a Happy encounter /Beginning

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Ghost-on-point

My pal keeps driving me to work on certain shifts...will have to stop that ( unless mega rain.., Get the train ;)

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