I have been with my partner for 8 years and we dont live together i have told him i will never live with him /get engaged or get married he has known that froim the start. so i have never given him any false hope and he is happy to be the same .We broke up for a week in Jan i left him and he contacted me after a week we did not argue jus felt i was ok on my own he never stays anymore he used to sleep on fri/sat but since fibro that aint happening so the physical side is non existent and has been for 6 months which bless him he is 54 and fine with it, in fact it was the 1st time we had shared a bed for 6 months when we went to London and he never once tried to touch me so bless him for that
but i have been thinking lately do i really want to be in a relationship we dont really see much of each other he comes every evening at 8pm goes home at 11 pm then on sat sun he picks me up in the morning weather permitting we take the doggy to the north beach for hour max and thats it our week but i just dont know where we are goiung to end up as i dont ever wanna live with him so lots of thinking to be done me thinks ???
i think the final straw has been my parents paying for my car yesterday when he said he could not do it until he had room in his drive yet if someone now called him to do a paying job he would def make room so what does that tell you ???? i think i know the answer ????
love to you all Diddle and p.s i will get off my soap box now lol !!!!