Last ever blog

[chorley]

This is my last ever blog

I have fibro, i will deal with it

Dont want to hear anymore about fibro

Dont want to know anymore about fibro

Dont want to read anymore about fibro

Feel free to comment its up to you i wont see it, i wont be back

chorley

[lynz]

oh ok

hope you ok

but as you say you wont read it

sorry to hear that ,bye bye

[Hidden]

Not like you to be so serious Chorley but I'm so sorry you won't be back on here.

[sarah-d]

wow

[Butterfly54]

Chorley hun I put a blog on last night that I now in the light of a lamp, can see was taken as sad.But the lovely comments from people make me realise that I`m not alone.And yet at home it is just me and the mutt.

Have a few days with the duvet over your head,plenty of TLC from your lovely Jules,and come back to us.Even if only occasionaly.

You have always been our cheeky chapie,but you need your time.Just wallow like a hippo thats what I do when it all gets too much.

The site is great,but sometimes when you read about those worse off maybe, it can be a lot to handle if you feel you have to be the joker.

So look after yourself with rest and kindness.

LOts of love Butterfly xxxx

[Sarah-Jane]

Dear Chorley, if and when you come back to us, even if its just to see what people said about your final blog, please take heart that many do manage to cope, its just that here it is safe to vent, whereas venting at home can be taken the wrong way.

The first time I came on here I could not cope with the immense measure of pain everyone was exooding [sorry about spelling]. I skim read and picked out what I wanted to read and sometimes just ask questions to reassure myself I am not more sick than I thought, that something else wasn't going on.

I have been reassured and supported here and saved myself a lot of visits to the doctor! So much so I had to give him a written update on what I was now dealing with.

Take care, come back if you need a shoulder, we are not going to leave you in the lurch.

Soft hugs,

[Rach1977]

Hey Chorley......so sorry to read your blog. I haven't spoken much to you, however was just wonedring has something occurred on here for you not to want to return?.....or is it the weight of reading other peoples problems that brings you down. Please reply, whether it be for others to see or PM me.

Anyway, look after yourself and keep safe and smiling! x

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[Sammicat15]

Hmmm, wonder what caused this blog?

[Ang01]

Oh thats so sad Chorley, your blogs often brighten my day and it would be such a shame not to hear from you any more. If you change your mind I look forward to hearing from you again. Take care x

[Hidden]

OMG this was a shocker i do hope you are ok (i know silly thing to say ref blog) but i do worry i hope nothing i have ever written or said has pushed you so far you felt you did not wan t to be on here ? i get so much from this site and i think we all do so much support and have made some lovely friends and people i trust especially their opinions , i do hope that you take a few days to reflect and come back but obviously we dont know what is going on in your life or whats happened and of course we all have to respect your decision, but i do know you will be very mucg missed you and all your family, i wish you all the best and good luck love tpo you and yours DIDDLE X

[Hidden]

i totally agree with everything you say on your blog and second it i too wish chorley and his family well like you say we comea nd go as we please but you do build up a friendship with people even though you have never met and i did tha with chorley and he made me laugh so much and i will sorely miss him and his wifes blogs but it is his choce and we dont know the full reasons which are personal to him and his family i do hope that one day his name will bwe back on here you never know but for now we will all have to get on with our blogs and be ready withopen arms or computers i should say if he returns love to you this wonderfyl sunny morning diddle x

[Hidden]

god Chorley I know how you feel I sick to the back teeth of this illness, Im sick of being self centred and concentrating on being ill, Id like it all to go away thank you, my life is now one long struggle of seeing gps specialists social services etc, worrying about money, but I know I can come on here and tell you all things I cant tell any one else, Chorley i hope you ll do what evers right for you, sending massive hugs and lots of love

[rubywhiplash]

So sorry to read this, sounds like things have really gotten to you and you have just had enough I can so understand this but try not to shut yourself away permanently as at times like this it is great to have like minded people that can relate and sympathise and give some good advice.

I hope you do come back and read all the messages of support and your private ones too, if you read this I am thinking of you and sending genuine and sincere ((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))) Ruby xx

[feduplisa]

Go Chorley if thats what helps, c u soon!! cus if I know anything bad days are here more than good! and when u have good u dont want to come here and remind yourself of the pain u know is coming back anyminute, instead ur running round like a headless chicken doing everything u can like normal people do! before it strikes and your "back in the room" so Im glad u gone and I'll be sorry when ur back enjoy your time away and make us laff when u next come back, u can fill us in on your journeys away from us! x

[Hidden]

so sorry to hear you arein hospital i do hope you will be ok and all goes well foryou thankyou ever so much for your lovely blog to me earlier it was very lkind and thouthful you are are a lovely person ans you give good advice and help alot of people now you relax and take care love to you diddle x

[Goodienuff]

The good thing is with such a support group as this, people may come and people may go, but the group will ALWAYS be here for anyone who wants it and needs it. I can understand Chorley, cos I used a fibro site which was mainly USA based, and I just couldn't get on with that, such a different approach to fibro than what I knew.

I am also extremely lucky to be a recovering alcoholic of 21 years sobriety, and my AA meetings are also helping me deal with the 'head stuff' which comes with Fibro, and reminding me of what I need to do to protect my sobriety.

Some people say alkies in recovery shouldn't take meds, but people I can tell you, I have been on meds for god knowa#s how long, and never thought about drinking again, BUT in the worst of the pain, depression, frustration etc. I have had to rely on AA, and I firmly believe that excessive pain combined with depression is more likely to lead me to stinking thinking which could lead to drinking than any medication (when taken as prescribed, and not abused) could.

I am doubly blessed to belong to two suportr groups

[julie51]

take care chorley xxx

[sulugirl]

Hope you come back. Finding this website was such a great thing for me, and I'm sad to read that you feel the need to abandon the support. It's a shame. Hope all is well, regardless. Good luck to you, but I still hope you come back.

[Bev95]

Well all I have to say should you see this is Good luck ...but just to mention that we all have to manage our own FMS that is a fact..but perhaps some people find a sort of relief and release to know that they are not suffering alone! I wish you well with your Fibro management..!