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Today is my Cancer Op/Fibro please behavešŸ«£

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Hello everyone

I hope the sun is shining wherever you arešŸ˜Ž

Finally got my cancer operation today, after 2 cancellations, one due to a heart scare.

My fibromyalgia has been off the scale flare wise, with the stress of it all.

But today finally off to the hospital, wondering if thereā€™s a flight I could get in the opposite directionšŸ˜ƒ

Been as calm as possible over the last few weeks, mainly for my youngest son, he was scared with my diagnosis.

But he has an amazing sense of humour bless him, heā€™s been keeping me going.

Although I think heā€™s equally upset, by being told, he will have to do some ironing and other chores, while Iā€™m recovering!

Could be a long 6 weeks recoveryšŸ¤£

Got my priorities right & had my blonde highlights done, some nice new nighties, and got a shed load of M&S midget gems and biscuits in my hospital bagšŸ‘šŸ»

Donā€™t think Iā€™ll be allowed to take my coffee machine with me thoughšŸ˜†

Iā€™m sure once in the hospital setting, Iā€™ll be emotional.

My sons havenā€™t decided which one will accompany me to the theatre dooršŸ˜Š

But when the eldest faints at the sight of a needle and feels sick at the smell of a hospital, Iā€™m thinking heā€™s not my safest betšŸ¤£

I was hoping fibromyalgia would do one and disappear for a while, but looks and definitely feels like itā€™s coming the hospital with mešŸ™„

My big concern has always been how Fibromyalgia , M.E & sciatica will react to the operation.

Guess only time will tell.

To anyone else on here facing a major Op today or a big appointment that you wish you didnā€™t have to faceā€¦.good luck šŸ€

What else can we do, but go with the flow & face things head onšŸ’ŖšŸ»

And Momo, iā€™ll remember your sound advice & not lift even a teabag afterwardsšŸ˜ƒ

And Dinkie Iā€™ll try to be a good girl!

Hope itā€™s a positive Thursday for everyone on herešŸ™šŸ»

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Blue-52 profile image
Blue-52

Morning, good luck, I hope it all goes smoothly, and they get it all.

Of course you are nervous, big healing hugs to you both. šŸ¤—šŸ¤—šŸ¤—šŸ¤—

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Dinkie

morning, wishing you all the best. Glad to hear you will try and heed my advice and be a good girlšŸ˜ personally never managed to practice what I preach however thatā€™s another story. You never know the offspring may be a dab hand at ironing and set up their own little money making sideline - you may find the place covered in other folksā€™ laundry when you get backšŸ˜‚

Got everything crossed for you.

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DizzytwoModerator

Sending love and good wishes that all goes smoothly for you today. Fingers crossed your recovery will be swift. Keeping you in my thoughts xx

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Welshcatlady

Hope it all goes well for you, and you have a swift recovery. Sending positive thoughts your way. x

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Coogy52

Good luck ā˜˜ļø ā˜˜ļø

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Ladame

Sending you best wishes for a successful operation and a speedy recovery. X

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Mountain-of-gold

Hi,

I will keep you in my thoughts and hope you make a very speedy recovery. Sending all my best wishes and a very big but very soft hug take care of yourself.

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Greyt

What a wonderful attitude you have and I am sure that helps with your major operation and getting through cancer .

I was diagnosed with a rare breast cancer 6 weeks ago and next week start 24 weeks of chemotherapy, immunotherapy and other treatments , once a week .

Like you I try to keep bright and positive and am determined to fight this head on.

Sending love and hugs and wishing you well through your operation and afterwards šŸ¤—

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Pdady

Good luck and don't worry... I'm 3 months in recovery from having four lymph nodes removed from my neck after the cancer had come back after 8weeks of intense treatment last year . I found the specialist would always give me worst case sannarios which terrified me but all was good. had a check up yesterday still clear the worst thing for me now is that camera up my nose every 8 weeks don't worry take things in your own time and you will be fine take care šŸ¤žšŸ»

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keokar

Hi Double Malibu, hope all goes well and soon recoving at home with family. šŸ¤—

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LunaBess

good luck, wishing a successful operation and recovery for you x

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Lovecavatese

Hi DoubleMalibu, very best wishes on your op, crossing my fingers for you and hoping things will run smoothly today! Have a lovely sleep and take care of yourself. Positive thoughts Xx

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RustyOBear

Morning Double Malibu, I hope all went well yesterday and you are now set up for your recovery?

As with any traumatic situation support of family and friends is so important, so you need to let them take care of you and not rush your recovery.

There are plenty of heartfelt healing thoughts winging their way to you from this group xxšŸ’

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Chunky6

take care and hope all goes well x

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fabpup01

Hope all goes well. Sending gentle hugs

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Maud-ie

Sending big love, positive thoughts and wishing you ALL the very best. You've got this!

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Wobblygirl

Sending special hugs+support to you and everso gentle hugs... xxxReminds me of my cancer op where I certainly didn't do my exercises proficiently, so take heed + do what's required but no heroics!

I found that when I had to seriously rest aftr long bout of pneumonia (3months!) my fibro improved considerably... So when enforced rest is put upon you with gentle exercises but no teabag lifting, maybe your fibro will benefit...

I do so hope this is the case 4 you...

Take it easy+enjoy the minutiae of recovery...

Wxx

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Aurorasparkle

sending lots of gentle hugs and healing vibes for a quick recovery.

Xx

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YassytinaFMA UK Volunteer

I hope everything went okay, now reading your post, sending my best wishes too you xx

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EarthSitter1

Hope itā€™s all going well x

Wobblygirl profile image
Wobblygirl

Hoping you're OK and in recovery mode?Thinking of you Wxxx

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Smilesalot

Love and good luck hun.Hugs Dawn

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