Can't stop crying

[Hayley95]

For the past 3 days I haven't stop crying my emotions have been so high. Really could do with a chat or support right now. I feel like I'm coming to the end with my health and it all getting to much 😭😭😭

[Golfer15]

Hi Hayley, hang in there, you aren't alone. We all support each other here.

Take care of yourself.

David

[YASMINTINA FMA UK Volunteer]

Hi there I am really sorry that everythings getting on top of you and your rite to come on to chat we all need support . I know your a young lady with mulitple conditions that makes life very tough for you, are you at home tonight and have family there to support you ?? I know you started a job awhile ago how's that going ?? Xxxx

[Hayley95 in reply to YASMINTINA]

They sacked me as I wasn't quick enough for them. Xx

[YASMINTINA FMA UK Volunteer in reply to Hayley95]

I am sorry to hear that , well I felt from one of your last posts they were not encouraging you the right way everybody has to learn a new job , their loss Hayley you don't need the worry do you live with your parents ?? xx

[Hayley95 in reply to YASMINTINA]

I live with my mum and sister but they aren't that supportive my mum isn't well and my sister not supportive. X

[YASMINTINA FMA UK Volunteer in reply to Hayley95]

Sorry mum isn't well, I can see already people are responding to your post it does show people really care Hayley. I found that when I joined the forum it gave me comfort in a way that perhaps family etc couldn't, unless people have fibro and other conditions along side it they don't get it . Have you any support groups in your area that meet up every so often ??? Sometimes a girlie best friend that can give you a gentle hug and just be there'?? , I know one of my besties was my guardian angel in the summer , not sure why but seemed to be in a flare for a long time xx

[Hayley95 in reply to YASMINTINA]

I haven't had any support at all. I haven't really looked into it. I don't have a best friend that understands me. Xxx

[YASMINTINA FMA UK Volunteer in reply to Hayley95]

Morning Hayley how are you today ??? I see you did say about having a walk instead of using the car , have you a nice park nearby our town centre has a lovely one a big duck pond beautiful views, one of the best things is a gentle walk wrapping up and listening to the crunching of the leaves a big mug of tea/coffee at the kiosk watching the dogs running around , perhaps just getting out for awhile might be helpful, are there any drop in centers for young people to meet up in your area at all?? Xxxx

[Hayley95 in reply to YASMINTINA]

Hey not good. I was going to a trail day at a hairdresser today but the salon is flooded and I have spoken to my mum and sister about the salon being flooded and I can just tell they don't believe me especially my sister she just making me so unhappy and I can't Deal with it. I've just been for a walk in the cemetery to see my dad grave. My family especially my mum and sister are making it really hard for me to be happy. I'm const feeling like giving up as they have no idea how I feel. X

[YASMINTINA FMA UK Volunteer in reply to Hayley95]

I'm back you've done well to wrap up and go for a walk , I'm going eventually to family graves I've made some hearts with atrificall flowers etc to put on mum dads , I lost my older sis 2 years ago she was only 67 she is in a different place but made her something too. I m sorry to hear they are like that with you, there's no need for it is there. Just don't understand why the negativity from your sister . Are you back in the warm now ???it's cold wet and blustery . Have you have your own bedroom a pair of headphones with some of your favourite music something nice to listen too instead I'm loving Sam smiths latest Jesse j Paloma faith don't know if you saw X factor winners rak su thought their own material brilliant and so catchy, I tell my children I'm still modern with my music tastes I'm 56. Brought rag bone man cd for my son he's good too xxxx

[YASMINTINA FMA UK Volunteer in reply to Hayley95]

Hi Hayley the weather isn't good I keep losing signal think you've replied to me but not coming through yet xxxx

[Hayley95 in reply to YASMINTINA]

Hey not good. I was going to a trail day at a hairdresser today but the salon is flooded and I have spoken to my mum and sister about the salon being flooded and I can just tell they don't believe me especially my sister she just making me so unhappy and I can't Deal with it. I've just been for a walk in the cemetery to see my dad grave. My family especially my mum and sister are making it really hard for me to be happy. I'm const feeling like giving up as they have no idea how I feel. X

[Carly448]

We are all here for you. The holidays are hard. If you can, get some fresh air or read something funny or good to occupy your mind.

[Hayley95 in reply to Carly448]

It hard I'm still looking for a job to support me until I can get pip but I'm worried it will take it toll on me. X

[Louby- in reply to Hayley95]

Big warm hugs 😘😘

[Bananas5]

XXX from an old timer

x

[M0AL61 Moderator Volunteer]

(((Hugs))) xx

[dannyxox]

Xxx

[Dizzytwo Moderator]

I always feel a little low in the winter I think it's because the weather keeps us indoors more. This can give us more time to think about our health problems. We can't even escape into the garden. ((HUGS)) XX

Momo

[Hayley95 in reply to Dizzytwo]

Very true. I think I need

To go for long walks instead of using my car. I think a lot of it is buliding up inside me and now it taking it toll on me . Xx

[Louby-]

Completely understand you, I have not stopped, The way I look at it is "I am not a tap, I cannot turn my emotions off and on" better out than bottling them up, let the tears come, I do as have stopped them in past, made me really ill.

Sending big hugs and much love

❤️😘😘😘😘

[Stevejj]

Ah just ready your post. Very sorry to hear your bad news. It’s a cruel world. I hope things go better for you soon x

[Dizzytwo Moderator]

Hi I have just noticed you have not locked your post. We advise all members to do so for security reasons. This link will show you how a post can be locked

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[Loujbell]

Don’t ever be afraid or few silly for crying! We are living with an illness that is truly horrible. It’s better to let it out!

I’m really new to this online but as hard as it is just remember how truly strong you are! X

[Cheriemaria]

Thinking of you in your pain..

I hate November I am sure that dark dreary days make us feel down.

You have lots of support from us all. Just lean on us as much as you like. xxxx🌞🌟🌞🌟

[mcglada0]

You have done the right thing, chatting here. It is just comforting to know that others understand what you are going through. Even though I am lucky enough to have a supportive family I have been very emotional and at a loss what to do next. I think it’s all tied up with the fibro. I do hope you find a job that you are happy in and perhaps you will meet some nice people. Take care. X

[Strongshell3]

Hi Hayley....

My heart goes out to you. Please know that your not alone.

I have had many days of crying lately also. I completely understand how hard it is when your surrounded by people that don’t understand. Like ...life with pain isn’t enough for us to cope with!

I think being surrounded with people that understand and accept you is crucial for our mental health.

Is there anyway you could maybe talk/ educate your family? Maybe if there was a local suppor group they could go with you to? Maybe they could attend an medical appointment?

I know it’s easier said than done.... but maybe it’s worth a try.

Previously i would not have been confident in dealing with people that don’t understand. But from attending a support group,CBT & making an FM friend who has balls of steel ..... I have become more confident 😀 . If I feel like people disbelieve I have a long list of replies ready to answer with ...

Hopefully you will hear from PIP soon ....then that will be one thing less to worry about.

Sending big hugs

[DanielleGemma]

Loads of love and cuddles your way hun! Hope you are feeling a little bit better today xxx

[Dotpot]

Hi love I think we all cry it’s so bad u young love what caused u mine was a RA

[Dizzytwo Moderator]

HI there, Haley I hope today finds you a little better? I See you are still forgetting to lock your posts. As there are so many replies to this one I have locked it for you

I have done this for privacy reasons not just for yours but every one whose replied. If you leave your posts unlocked your face and everything you and other members talk about can be read by anyone on Google. I hope your day is a good one take care xx

Momo