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As promised I said I would get back and update. My sister picked me up as I'm still in the combined flare and not safe. We were seen at long hanbourgh business park by a physiotherapist. The first thing was I let her know that I was Photosensitive and she pulled down the blinds and switched off the flourecent lights.

I had taken additional information of how both the new conditions of reactive arthritis and Lupus are effecting my abilities to do the simple tasks listed. Such as right now I'm using my little finger to type due to nerve entrapment/damage.

She said 'well I can see that you are having problems and have alot of things to deal with' . So we calmly went through the questions. I told her how my appetite is effected already and not on the lupus drugs yet, how I have issues with my hands and showed her what damage has been done.we talked about me doing a 'self referral' to the rapid access team from social services and the letter confirming this arrived that morning, so we copied that as evidence I was in their system? The same with the appointment letters for MSK and Rhumetology because I'm recently diagnosed and despite the paperwork saying 'don't give copies of appointments' when your newly diagnosed, they ask for info? And I was asked.

I told her how I was under doctors orders 'not to go out into daylight' and she said 'so you should not be here really then?' I said no but given the circumstances, I had no choice in the matter as the rediculous system of sending people appointments to destinations of 120 mile round trip,meant I had reschedule that at the expense of my health put at risk in attending or having to start the process off again due to the silly and over Draconian rules? I should have had a home visit but was denied this on this rulings basis.

We talked about bathroom grants for converting​ my sheds into a downstairs toilet and shower room due to medical reasons.

We talked about dressing and using a butler device applicator for compression devices and how the swollen feets small joints, ligaments tendons ankels and knees were making that more challenging.

I gave her a list of adaptions and equipment I had compiled. She was very greatfull for the extra information that I brought for the desicion makers and was adding this to the report.

She asked me about doing a squat very hesitantly as she had seen my other conditions and said you can't can you,? I said no. I was asked if in a seated position if I could raise my right leg out as high and straight as possible and showed her the damage caused by the Lupus attacking both my hamstrings meant that I couldn't fully straighten these and slept in bed with the knees bent- she was shocked.

She asked me very hesitantly about 'any thing I like to do? Any hobbies' ? I looked at her. I then said that I'm under house arrest. That when the suns up even in cloudy weather I'm not to go out in this? That means I sit behind closed blinds watching rubbish TV, DVDs, listening to CDs and classic FM? I can't read because of holding book, have tried holder but have now eye/head pains.

I can't wear my hearing aids as the hospital did a poor job of making ear moulds but that a had to cancel 2 appointments to return them and refit the hearing buds due to flare. I told her that I lip read pretty good.

She noticed I was dressed like a bee keeper with a full length dress with sleeves, a light reflective jacket over that,a white pashmenia wrapped around my head and neck and a huge floppy hat with sunglasses.

I had my open elbow crutches as my swine-spine had kicked in.

The meeting took 1.5 hours. The assessor was very understanding, very thorough. We covered all bases in an easy manner. I believe between what I had originally written on my application,my additional information and the assessment, I feel I covered everything including showing her my front fastening bra as my shoulders are frozen? The face to face was very good with this kind lady. We left her typing up my butterfly rash had appeared infront of her!

I now wait for the next 2-3 plus weeks.

The DWP ask for x-rays (that the NHS never releases not even between hospitals), reports from various sources that you won't have access too unless you have been sent a copy, they claim not to want appointment letters but do ask for these.

So my thoughts are if in doubt, bring everything including the kitchen sink. The assessor had a photo copier available as well?

I hope you carefully match your conditions to the pip point scoreboard and gather your nuts in May' as the saying goes and good luck with yours.

Heather x

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Trikki profile image
Trikki

Wow...that was certainly very thorough....bet you were kna...... when you got home.....Fingers crossed for you....I have a feeling you will get what is well deserved.

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Creativeness1

Hi ukgospel diva.

I really hope this all works out for you. That is one very tall list.

Good luck my friend

Sending hugs :)

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rosewine

What's story why they made you go to an assessment centre in the first place let alone that far away is beyond belief. I refused my first appointment as I knew there was one much nearer with parking but if course had to go to that one. It appears that you had someone who was actually listening to you which makes all the difference. Yes I copied appointment cards etc for things like hydro, physio etc as often it is the only way if proving you are actually attending. I think k sharing experiences as I did when I went to mine helps other people in the same situation as until you have an assessment it is difficult to envisage the type of things they are going to asks and want to see.

I hope you eventually get meds etc sorted to help you with these new conditions you have developed. Please let us know your results, fingers crossed for you. You are being extremely brave under the circumstances.xxx

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I am so glad you managed to get your f2f out of the way. It must have been a terrible ordeal to say the least. I am sure you will get the right out come you deserve. xx

Mo

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ukgospeldiva in reply to Dizzytwo

It wasn't an ordeal at all. The assessor was very kind, considerate and professional without the snappy attitude.

But we wait as we all know there is no guarantees, so I'm ready to take it to the next level.

Im just poised to request regardless the decision makers report.

All of us are 'deserving' of these entitlements​ as we earn them in the endless nights of pain wracked sleeplessness, the lives we had, sacrificed on the Alter of disease, the smallness of our world's.

Everyone is deserving. We are veterans of lifes folly.

Hx

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bluebell99

Hello, I think you ticked all the boxes and supplied all the information necessary to get your award. That must have been a long and harrowing day for you.

However, it sounds like you had a good assessor who was thorough and sympathetic.

Fingers crossed you will hear a positive result very soon.

X

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ukgospeldiva in reply to bluebell99

Hello bluebell.

I was not phased at all by the process- think I have seen far far worse 25 years ago when I saw a retired GP employed for this when my back kicked out for a couple of years? He was very very rude and dismissive towards me but in all fairness, even he couldn't refute the MRI scan.

I honestly blame the actual 'pip form' it's self. I doesn't allow people to 'enlarge' upon their conditions and how they effect their day to day life? It's very different from the DLA form. It's very poorly designed. It's supposed to be 'simpler' but it still takes 3.5 hours(the same as the DLA form) but is far less effective as a 'diagnostic tool'?

Combine this useless piece of rubbish with good people who are 'naturally reticent' finding it very difficult to 'talk' face to face with anyone "professional" GP, Consultant, Solicestor,Police, Social Worker ect and what we have is a 'perfect storm'- form with lack of detailed information plus useless face to face meeting equals zero points being awarded?

Who ever designed that form needs depositing on the dark side of the moon!

This is a no win situation.It's wasted billions. It's caused claiments to go into meltdown (some taking their own lives) and DWP staff have severe mental health issues often the stress resulting in complete breakdown with themselves also becoming victims of the same process when they too have no other option but to apply for the same benefits?

I saw a civil servant who developed MS go through 9 months of hell and she used to work for them!

No this needs jettisoning into deep space.

There is no guarantee even if you 'tick all the boxes'? So I'm ready, bring it!

Hx

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Dipsy23

hi hope you get the right result and given your award .hope you don't mind me asking have you tried clear uva /uvb window shields /protectors as I am looking where to get a good one for my son whom also very photosensitive

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ukgospeldiva in reply to Dipsy23

Hello Dipsey it's a pleasure to meet you?

I'm in that process right now. I have roughly estimated that the car will cost between£ 350-500, the house £1500+!

I would look on line at both eBay and Amazon for quickness, but I found the exact same product on the USA eBay website selling for S17 and charged on the UK site for £97! So watch out!

There are a few UK companies that make this same plastic film as privacy plastic from fit shops just sprayed with a chemical that's supposed to last 10 years?

In fact there is a nano UV spray just about to come out at b+as. But you can buy this cheeper in larger quantities it seems from eBay ect like a 5 ltd UV spray solution is some thing like £46 as opposed to paying like 9.99 for half a ltr?

I'm just weighing up which I think is better and also cost effective because nobody wants to be 'ripped off' and made very ill in the bargain?

So your poor son is suffering as well...words fail me.

Hx

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Dipsy23

Thanks i will look out for that .we have changed light bulbs in house now sorting windows going to look at eBay and Amazon thanks

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TheAuthor

Hi ukgospeldiva

I am delighted that the assessment is over for you, and it sounds very indepth. I now want to sincerely wish you all the best of luck with your outcome, fingers crossed for you my friend.

All my hopes and dreams for you

Ken x :)

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ukgospeldiva in reply to TheAuthor

Thank you Ken you are very kind and thoughtful to us all.

Hx

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TheAuthor in reply to ukgospeldiva

Good luck my friend x :)

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