MORN ALL

[sandycat]

SORRY NOT BEEN ON HERE FOR A WHILE, HAVE BEEN SO VERY TIRED, MORE THAN USUAL I THINK, MY PARTNER AND I AND MY 2 DAUGHTERS WENT TO DISNEYLAND PARIS. IT WAS SUCH A LOVELY PLACE, WE ALL HAD A LOVELY TIME, I FELT BAD AT TIMES CAUSE I WAS WALKING SLOW AND HAD TO HAVE LOTS OF RESTS, THE FAMILY WERE UNDERSTANDING, MY HOUSE IS SO VERY DUSTY AND NEEDS HOOVERING, I JUST CANT SEEM TO BE BOTHERED, MY KIDS DO HELP WHEN THEY CAN, BUT I JUST DONT THINK MY PARTNER FULLY UNDERSTANDS MY ILLNESS, YES I KNOW HE WORKS SO I AM NOT ASKING HIM TO DO ALL HOUSEWORK, BUT HE SO VERY UNTIDY, HE MADE US SANDWHICH LAST NIGHT THIS MORN THERE WAS CRUMBS ON SURFACE AND BREAD WAS LEFT OUT, YES SILLY I KNOW, BUT THATS ME, XX

[ladymoth]

Men, eh? Most of them are a bit mucky, and like us to clean up after them. I'm glad you enjoyed Disneyland - it's great there, and I love Paris, anyway.

Hoovering is my least favourite household job, so my daughter does mine - she enjoys it which doesn't seem normal!

I do some cooking in return, so we manage pretty well. Don't worry about the dust - it'll still be there when you feel up to removing it, and it will always come back again.

Moffy x

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Your Oh sounds wonderful .. Walked at your pace round Disneyland made sandwiches ....

My oh does all the cooking and always leaves a mess but he cooks which I can't ... I think I am very lucky sounds like you have a great OH too.

VG x

[ladymoth]

Too right VG! Send him to me if you get fed up, Sandycat!

[lynnecw]

My son is a chef and used to having someone wash up and clear up behind him. He cooks at home when he is not at work but uses more stuff than I would and walks away leaving me to clear up. We both work full time so in other circumstances that would be fair but I have had to say to him if he's not going to help clear up then don't bother cooking as I just haven't got the energy to do it.

[sandycat]

thank you all very much for your messages. xx