Hello,
My partner and I have been trying to conceive for six months, I am 39 and he is 44. I had a chemical pregnancy last week at 4weeks 4 days, and it's been a bit of a blow. It was my first pregnancy, and although it has reassured me slightly we can conceive, I'm very scared of the future.
I'm a very anxious person, and on the waiting list for assessment for Autism Spectrum Disorder. I'm mentioning this, as the usual anxiety management techniques aren't always effective for me. We're going to continue to try without a break, conscious that after a loss fertility can increase, but I'm terrified. Terrified of falling pregnant again, terrified of not.
Typically, I would now be in the beginning of my fertile period, but my LH tests are very low - My GP warned me my cycle may be off.
My mental health is pretty poor right now, and hopefully it'll improve soon with time, but I was hoping to connect with people who may feel/have felt similar, and possibly learn to cope with this better. I feel quite alone.
Thank you.