3dp5dt double FET - feeling nothing

[MollyRobs]

Morning all

I’m laying in bed writing this as I can’t sleep. It’s 4am on Weds and I had a double transfer at 1pm on Monday. Since then I’ve had nothing - not even the slightest twinge, cramp, no sore boobs, nothing. This is embryo 4 and 5 for me. The previous 3 all ended in BFN. I’ve never experienced even a positive test. I’m trying to stay positive because I keep saying to myself that some women don’t feel symptoms (albeit only 10-15%!!). I just expected a double transfer would mean I would. Logically I thought two embryos would mean my body was needing to respond more if they implanted. So I’m thinking they mustn’t have implanted.

I’d love to hear double transfer symptoms, even if they were opposite to mine xx

[Rubyr3d]

Hi MollyRobs, it’s still very early. Some people don’t have implantation until 5 or 6 days after transfer. I’ve also read frozen embryos take longer to implant than fresh. Fingers crossed for you lovely 🤞

[MollyRobs in reply to Rubyr3d]

thank you. I wasn’t aware of a longer implantation for frozen x

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I have never felt anything post transfer, and I have had single, double and triple transfers. I was always told if you did feel anything it would likely just be side effects of any drugs you are on anyway... it's super early so don't panic! Heaps of luck! x

[minnesota_girl]

I agree - every body is different and feels things differently. I'm a big cramper, but that's just me - I've heard loads of people say that they felt nothing and were super surprised when they got a BFP!

And as others have said, frozens do take longer than fresh - I wish you the best of luck and grace as you get deeper into the 2ww xxxx

[Midsummer_daydream]

hey Molly, I also had a double transfer last Friday. Embies 3 and 4 for me. 2 previous transfers were FET and were also BFN so I know exactly what you feel. Im the one who didn’t have any clear symptoms either.

I feel cold (because it’s 🥶) and a little sore boobs, very likely as I’m taking extra progesterone in the form of tablets, cyclogest and Lubion. That’s it. The last 2 rounds I felt similar, except for vivid dream nothing to note.

I know symptom spotting isn’t the right things but it’s FOMO most of the time for us whose have never had a BFP to even compare. Good luck to you this time!!

[MollyRobs in reply to Midsummer_daydream]

ah all the best to you. Did you do frozen transfer or fresh? I know what you mean about missing out! Sending you positive thoughts x

[Midsummer_daydream in reply to MollyRobs]

it’s FET but all of my embies are non tested