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[honeybeanbee]

Hi everyone,

I'm new to this world and am feeling very scared and lonely - really excited to have found an online community though!

We lost our baby last year and after TTC for the last 12 months decided to go for fertility tests and found out due to high 'natural killer cells' we will need treatment to have a baby to term (this is not provided on the NHS). So we'll be starting officially from 1st December and I don't know how to feel.

I feel lucky that they've found something they can help us with but also so sad that my dreams of being a parent are so so far away and might never happen, or have to happen with help rather than 'naturally'. I feel judged and can only tell a few people (my partner isn't telling any of his friends) and nor are we telling parents yet because it's too much pressure!

Not sure what I'm trying to say really but hello and thanks for being here! xx

[HMCW22]

Hello! Welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear about your loss and struggles ♥️ You have come to the right place for support and advice, I've found this so useful while going through treatment. Sending lots of positive thoughts to you x

[Boo718]

Hello, welcome to this wee safe space. It has honestly been a haven for me over the last 5 years. The guys and girls on this page are just amazing and will be full of advice and support anytime of day. We are all in this together. Xxx

[Hidden]

So sorry for your loss and welcome to this forum. Like the others have said this place is invaluable. The people on here are incredible and so knowledgeable and supportive no matter what they are going through themselves. I am sure you will get loads of help and advice and support. There are a lot of people who have been where you are now so do understand how you are feeling. Heaps of luck with everything and any questions just ask xx

[Fairytale22]

sorry for your loss and welcome to the community. You will be looked after here xx

[Hidden]

Hello, I’m probably just repeating what’s been said already but this forum has been invaluable to myself & my husband. So much good advice & support. Sorry to hear of the difficulties you have faced so far & all the best going forward.xx

[honeybeanbee]

Thank you everyone for your kind words! It's been really nice to just get it out there and to have such a friendly and understanding response! xx