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Anyone else in there 2WW and going crazy 🤪

I am 5dp5dt and I feel totally normal. I’ve convinced myself it hasn’t worked and I might as well test, but also don’t want to test as don’t want to see a negative. I had a few very slight cramps a couple of days ago (which I had with my first FET and have a daughter ) but i can recall feeling more cramping then. At the time I thought it was period pains. I just want to know 😱😱

Test day isn’t until Friday 15th. Anyone else not have any symptoms at all?? This 2WW is enough to drive anyone mad. Trying to tell myself if it hasn’t worked it’s fine, don’t be upset, I can do it again but I know i will be!

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CJones40

Good morning. I’m in the same position as you. I had a double transfer last Saturday so I’m 8dp5dt and they gave me test date of next Saturday which is the 16th… I don’t really know how I seem to have to wait longer than you to do a test? It’s an awful wait! I’ve been in work so the week has gone a little faster but it is dragging!

I have had a few little cramps and that’s about it. If I wasn’t working this week I think I would test a few days early but I can’t face testing and then having to go to work so I’ll have to wait until Saturday!!

Good luck!! 🤞🍀 xx

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to CJones40

Tbh I was surprised when they told me the test date was next Friday! As that is 10dp5dt. So you’ll be 2 weeks past by Saturday!?

Fingers crossed!! As tempting as it is I really think it’s best holding off testing. When I had my daughter the line was soo faint if I had tested any earlier I don’t think it would of appeared!

Good luck xx

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Hallj10

The 2WW is hell! I have never made it past 6DP5DT before doing a FRER test 🤣I have no will power. Have always had positives then when it has worked 😬

Currently 2DP5DT. Waking up with horrible headaches since the transfer but that’s it really. It is new though and not the meds as juts started.

Do get funny womb feelings and back back on all the meds I’m on. Taking a right cocktail this time.

Good luck x

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StarsAllAround

Hi I had my fresh transfer Monday just gone and have my test date Friday also. I am also going crazy as this is my 3rd time pervious two failed. I feel like my period is about to come. I have been over analysing every symptom. Every cycle will be different so try not to compare to you last one. Fingers crossed for you.

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CameliaLily

Yep! I’m in the same boat. 9DP and did a Clearblue digital test yesterday that was negative but I understand they aren’t very sensitive at all so I’m really hoping it’s just not registering yet. This wait is absolute hell. Knowing that your body knows if it’s working or not and not having a clue yourself just seems ridiculous 🤣 We are otherwise so in tune with our bodies but not with this. I’m keeping everything crossed for everyone waiting Xx

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Buisquits

Hi, I'm 8 days post FET. No symptoms apart from tiredness but I think it's my younger one's cold 😑I never test before the date (14.07) as it still leave me with hope that i've just tested early and if I wait a bit longer then it will change into a positive. Crazy. Also, that would break me twice, if it was a negative. I prefer to cry my eyes out just once, on the test date 😂

And finally, I had a positive before but when we went for the early scan they said there was no heart beat. So even the positive result does not mean there will be a baby.

That's how positive I am about all that ... 😅

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Lucyhannah1

Thanks for all your replies. I wish all of us good luck 🤞🏻 we can do this!! X

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Greencook

I am pretty much the same days as you I’m 5dp5dt today too - I have NO symptoms at all, but I’m going to wait until Sunday to test as last time I send my mind absolutely crazy & I swore I’d never do it to myself again x

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HollyT7

I had zero symptoms with out second! I tested early as I was convinved it hadn't worked and just wanted to get Iver seeing the negative, but saw a faint positive instead so that sent me into a spin from there until test day 😂 double edged sword!! keep on going!! xx

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to HollyT7

This is exactly how I feel atm 😂 would rather just see the negative if that’s the outcome and pour a glass of wine haha. It’s going to be a long week! Xx

I am trying our last month trying naturally ,with Letrozole and cyclogest, before our last ever FET in Sept....and def going slightly mad.

Day 22 of a 28 day cycle so only a few days to go.

Thinking this could save us from doing out FET! But what are the chances?! 🤪

Depending on the day symptom spotting I think I am and I am not pregnant!

😆

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Scout182

I'm 5dp5dt today, and have had no symptoms either. My clinic said to wait until 20th July to test. I keep googling symptoms, but I'm not having anything. But I don't think everyone does? Good luck to us all! ❤️

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to Scout182

I am 6dp5dt - no idea why my clinic have told me to test on the 15th?! It seems too early … Same, I can’t recall any symptoms with my FET with my daughter maybe a few cramps but I feel completely normal. Then I am telling myself most people don’t know they are pregnant until they’ve done a test anyway?! Unless they are past 7-8 weeks. Good luck to you! X

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Scout182 in reply to Lucyhannah1

I'm having NHS treatment, and I think they tell everyone to wait two weeks as standard, but it seems like lots of people are getting results earlier than that. I think I'll wait though as I like hoping there is still a chance for me. Good luck to you too! ❤️

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Rebecca2022 in reply to Lucyhannah1

Lucyhannah1 having had a 5 days blastocyst transfer it means that on the 15th you’ll be like 15 days post ovulation, enough to get a positive test with a sensitive urine test or blood work. I cross my fingers for you!

Also they ask IVF patients to test early as, if you are on medications like Progesterone, that would stop your period from starting, even if you are not pregnant.

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HollyT7 in reply to Rebecca2022

I was told 13 days after my fresh transfer and 16 after my frozens, just for told to keep taking the meds, tested super early for all 3 😂

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Rebecca2022 in reply to HollyT7

Tested early too both times! 😅

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to Rebecca2022

Interesting, I didn’t know that. Thank you! X

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Sunrise_12

I’m 6dp5dt today. I’m having cramps on and off since transfer. Also lower back pain. Yesterday I felt miserable. Did a cheap test yesterday morning and got a negative. Did another, clear blue, in the evening and it said not pregnant! I’m thinking it’s too early to test but I’ve so many symptoms. Going nuts thinking

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to Sunrise_12

I def think too early too test. I went back and looked at my previous photos on my FET and I tested 12 days past and even then the positive line was really faint. Fingers crossed for you! X

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Sunrise_12 in reply to Lucyhannah1

So we are both 6dpt today. How r u feeling?

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to Sunrise_12

I feel totally normal and have zero symptoms at all. I’m tired but I have a 21 month old and apparently the prognova makes you tired anyway?! How about you??

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Sunrise_12 in reply to Lucyhannah1

Wow…you’re a busy lady! My little guy is 10.5months old. I felt sick all day. Got a first response test and it’s a faint line which explains the pains and the nauseousness. I know it’s early but I tested on day 5 with my little guy and also got a faint line.

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to Sunrise_12

Oh wow that’s amazing!! I am 7dp5dt today. 3 days till test day 😬 don’t feel any symptoms except a slight headache today 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

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Rebecca2022

Same 2 WW hell! I’m 10DP5DT today, did a Frer test yesterday (I couldn’t stop myself!), had a BFP but not as dark as I hoped it to be (never happy lol!), first beta draw is tomorrow, I’ve been having very strong lower back pain and mild uterine cramps with no bleeding. I’m googling everywhere and can’t wait to have more answers from the blood tests!

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to Rebecca2022

Oh my goodness exciting!! A faint line is definitely a good sign. With my daughter it was super faint on 10dp5dt. Did they tell you to do a test again in a couple of days? I think they said that to me x

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Rebecca2022 in reply to Lucyhannah1

My clinic only prescribes BHCG blood test, which is due tomorrow (11DP5DT) and Thursday. I obviously can’t wait to know if I’m in or out, I have no symptoms other than lower back pain/cramping all day today.

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to Rebecca2022

Good luck!! I’m 7dp5dt today. Still not feeling anything 😱😱

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Catwind

Honestly I’m realizing symptoms or no symptoms doesn’t mean anything. I have literally every symptom but that is probably the progesterone. I’m awaiting results of my beta so should get a call in a few hours but I told my OH, either way, we’re going to celebrate today. And tomorrow is always a new day. It’s super hard but I’m trying to stay pragmatic and remember that my life is still good and trying to make fun plans to look forward to for the next few days, baby or no baby. But ask me again if I get a negative blood test, I may be a total mess at that time 😉.

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to Catwind

Oh I’m totally with you. I just want to know either way but too scared to do an early test 😱

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Hallj10

How was your blood test? X

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to Hallj10

My clinic don’t do a blood test! They just told me to test on day 10 and then again 2-3 days later x

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Lucyhannah1

So I caved and tested this evening. BFN, guessing I’m out for this month as I am 9dp5dt and test date is tomorrow… not sure what difference a few hours would make. Anyone had a negative at this stage then positive? With my daughter it was very faint at day 12. Guess I will test again tomorrow and then day 12 to be sure!

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Buisquits

I'm sorry it happened to you. The clinic will probably ask you to stick to your meds for few more days and then do the test. It's always possible it's late implementation. My clinic tests after 14 days.

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to Buisquits

I have cramping on and off. Thinking it could be AF. Will stick till my meds till Sunday which is day 12 😕

I went into this cycle telling myself I wouldn’t be upset and how lucky I am to have my daughter but it still feels shit x

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Buisquits in reply to Lucyhannah1

I does, doesn't it. Disappointment hurts. Ice just started spotting red blood, and it's my test day today - positive. I don't won't to miss out on the time with my boy but at the same time I feel I need to be on my own...

Hopefully it's good cramps for you ❤️

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Lucyhannah1 in reply to Buisquits

I hope so for you. Also just feel like I want to be on my own processing my own thoughts. Stay positive x

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