Feeling anxious

[Rfletcher]

I am 2 weeks away from having our last embryo put back in all being well with scan etc.

I am so worried that it’s not going to defrost this time round and that the embryo won’t implant.

This is our last chance, our last frozen embryo. I just feel so stressed about it and worried that I’m going to let my husband down. How do people get through their last go?

Xxx

[Millbanks]

Hi lovely, sorry to hear you’re feeling stressed - it’s a difficult one to balance emotionally.

I’m sure you want to go in to it feeling positive but it’s hard when there is so much riding on it.

Is there any reason that you think it won’t thaw ok?

Xx

[Rfletcher in reply to Millbanks]

Just because it is our last one and we haven’t lost one to thawing yet. I guess I’m just thinking of the worst case. I need to get my head out of this space and start believing it can work.

Xx

[Millbanks in reply to Rfletcher]

It’s very hard to balance between the two. I always found that just not being too positive or too negative was the only thing that helped xx

[zytajones]

Hi Rfletcher,

Just to cheer you up a bit. All of my 4 frosties thaw ok and has been transfered with no issues.

I'm sure your last one will be fine ! :))

Good luck!

[SianieShorts]

Hi Rflethcher. We must be on similar schedules…I am on long protocol with final scan due on Thursday 7th and FET expected week beginning 11th April.It is our last Embryo too and such a whirlwind of emotions. I am so scared of how I am going to react to it not working but I am also feeling this weird feeling of just wanting to get it all over with!

I’m sorry I can’t be of any reassurance but I just wanted you to know that you are not alone xxx

[Rfletcher in reply to SianieShorts]

Yes we are pretty much in the same place. I’m in on the 8th for my scan and the transfer is on the 13th if all is ok.

Well I wish you all of the luck in the world for your last frosty.

It’s nice to know I’m not doing this last one alone, we will have to keep in touch through out the next couple of weeks. Xxx

[SianieShorts in reply to Rfletcher]

Yes definitely. All the best to you too xxx

[Bev51094]

I had 2 frozen blastocyst transfered today

Both thawed very well and one even started hatching

My first frozen round and also our last try

Good luck x